I am thinking about this more and more as we are getting closer to TTC again. I feel like if I get pg again I am being selfish and might be making her wean before she's ready Is it still self-weaning if she weans bc I'm pregnant?

I just feel like she's nowhere near ready yet, she hasn't dropped ANY feeds yet and she's almost 1!! She loves booby so much! lol.

Does the amount of milk you have before your pg have any effect on if your milk supply drops or not? Or does it just happen to everyone? I have always had a lot of milk. 11 months on and I still get let downs during the day when she's not feeding and leak a couple of times a day. Maybe I will keep making enough so she doesn't wean. Hmm...it's such a tough decision isn't it??

I never thought of it as being a problem, I thought I'd wean around 1 yr old but now that I have an almost 1 year old I see that she's still a baby!! And I want her to wean in her own time.
Heaven, I know exactly how you feel! I've wondered the same thing.

DS has only just started dropping a couple of feeds, but he won't be fully weaning anytime soon on his own. It's so hard - I don't want to force DS to wean before he's ready, but I don't want to wait too long to start TTC either. It's a tough one.