We've made it 12 months (WOW! big deal given the disaster I had at trying to bf #1) which I really do put down to just feeding Ruby whenever she wanted it, rather than to a schedule or anything.
At the moment, I am feeding first thing in morning, sometime in the middle of the day/afternoon and once at night.
We bF for comfort especially if she wakes up in the night, it's just soo easy to soothe her, I just pop her on straight away.

What I'm asking is, Will she wean herself as we just continue on our merry way? My friend asked me the other day when I was going to wean her, and to be honest I have never given it any thought because it has just been so easy to bf her. Plus to have made it to 12 months is a miracle given last time's experience with #1.

I worry that if we aren't bf she'll miss out on vitamins and nutrients... as I'm a crap cook and very lazy with getting her food together.