I feel your pain, Arcadia!! I am in the same boat. DS is boob addict, and I would happily continue except that the desire for #2 is kicking in and no AF. DS won't go to sleep without BF, so we are stuck. I have ordered NCSS for toddlers, I hope that may give me some tips for gradual, gentle weaning. My plan is to give it another 6 months, and hope that when he's a bit older he will be able to understand if I say to him 'no boob, cuddle to sleep', or something like that. I've never been so keen to see AF in my life! I hope she visits you soon.