oh goth mum sounds like hes being a bit of an ass...sorry you had such a horrid day
it sucks when nothing goes your way
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oh goth mum sounds like hes being a bit of an ass...sorry you had such a horrid day
it sucks when nothing goes your way
Jeeez this thread is hard to keep up with! :lol:
Tat! Glad your DP is doing *something* at least. Better than nothing.
~Heavenly~, DF is the same. I dont' think I have ever received a birthday present on my birthday. It's always a couple of days before. He can't keep a surprise to save himself :P
If DF complains about me taking all his money he's got a problem! My pay goes on the house repayments and reno saving, and his money is general "living" money. When he ever has a dig at me spending "his" money I just tell him to move out of my house :lol: There comes a time when you have to realise that being a team is going to get your further that splitting everything, I think.
Gothmum, sorry to hear about your mothers day, mine wasn't to flash either if it makes you feel any better. I slept most of it away and had a mini tantrum when DF woke me up to go to his parents for dinner for mothers day.... speaking of family's getting along and different up bringings, I could probably write a novel! ;)
Sounds like your DH is being a bit of a b*tch too! Must be his man rags haha, i swear they get them more often than we do!
actually he usually gives me everything late lol it was just i harrassed him to go to the shop so he had something for me on time lmao
haha, oh well better late than never! My mothers day is being postponed to next friday (Jayvan's due date) so I dont get mine til then either - we're just going out for a fancy dinner - above tantrum was for all DF's family buying me a "mothers day present' which I didn't particularly want to be made a fuss of - I know they mean well - so Df didn't buy me anything to save his neck ;) I know, I'm horrible.:
Donna - I was like why did buttface get blanked out...OHHHH lol what a doodle, I think its cause its finally dawning on him that there will be 2 kids and its his primal fight or flight urge kicking in!dontcha sometimes wish we had tape recorders for stuff like that..we weren't planning ours at all but DP knew full well I wasn't on the pill so when he says he did it for me I have a go at him!
Haha see im a derro but I KNOW im a derro and don't care :lol:
Yeah my folks are pretty well off and DP hates that my mum is forever buying us stuff/offering to help with money etc...like my baby shower everyone bought little presents, my mum bought a tumble dryer :rolleyes: he's grateful but it gets on his goat!! And mum gives me $50 a week to do her ironing even though she could get an ironing lady to do it for half that but she can afford it and likes helping me out so now I just say im going 2 my mums instead of im going 2 do ironing so he doesn't have a sad hehehe
Teagz: yeah me and DP do it the other way round he pays rent and I pay groceries so when he buys himself something off ebay I try not to have a go at him cause the rent is a lot more than food... but its annoying cause he has a lot more disposable income than me...in fact once I start gettin centrelink ill hav nothin left each week...boo!
hey girls,
emma- agree full with you about pete, gaea does very well and pete also does help with mya but finances i think are alot more important at this stage.
my dp and i share all of our money and we always have. i dont know why we started but i think we find it easy so then we dont fight about who spent more or who deserves more. my centrelink payment is enough for 1 weeks rent so every fortnight that comes out of our account and straight on rent and his pay and my pay just go on bills, other half of rent, groceries and little bit of spending if we can afford to.
billy sometimes gets upset with me because my family are quite well off and sometimes i feel a bit bad at how easy i got it. my dad bought me a brandnew car for my 17th and has always helped us financially. his mum couldnt afford a place to live so they lived on a friends property in a caravan for a year. but i think it has opened my eyes and really made me appreciate money and family soooo much more. especially being in the situation now where we live week by week with money.
anyway....
had my second ultrasound today, baby looks great, the heartrate was 155bpm and was measured at 12w6d so 3 days ahead of dates.
i think its a girl, just have a feeling.
i hope mines a girl after all the pink **** ive bought haha
hahah i remember having that fear with Maddie, my mum called when i was in labour and it was like 2 in the morning and she was like "amy, i just had the most horrible dream, you had the baby and it was a boy and you have all your pink stuff" haha then after i had maddie she goes" the other part of the dream was that it was a black baby" that obviously wouldnt be right considering billy and i are both white. lol i thought that was quite funny
LOL wtf
DPs worried our kid will be a little wranger cause i had wranger hair as a kid and he thinks she will get teased i think itd b gorgeous haha
i had a dream last night that i gave birth to a chocolate cake and everyone in the hospital had a piece it was so wierd
i havent had any BH's or anything so i reckon ill have to be induced, got a MW appt in morning so hopefully they will do an internal (do they usuaully if ur overdue?) and let me know if theres any action going on...i seriously cant do any more cleaning/cooking/lazing around!!
Teagz - Congrats btw! I don't think I noticed!
:hello: to all - I'm off to work for the first time tomorrow in a week - I don't think I'm gonna hold up very well tomorrow but oh well
Hi all, hope everyones been well. I've been AWOL coz Ive been sick the last couple of weeks, had a cold then as soon as I got over it I got another one that was 10 times worse. I only had a quick skim over the last few pages, so forgive me for not being up to date.
Hope everyone had a good Mothers day both mums & mums to be. Those who didnt big hugs & kisses to you. I got a mug that says Mum on it coz I got DF a Dad one last year & then on Sunday he took me out to get a foot spa.
Was it LJ who was talking about a card even though you're not a mum yet? I didnt get anything off DF for last year but I got a Mum to be mothers day card off my mum. I got a card off her this year to, saying that she's proud of me & Im doing a good job as a mum :jawdrop: A complete turn around from when I was pregnant but, I have made a point of proving her wrong more than once from PG to now.
To all who are PG Congrats if I havent said it before.
All those due or coming up to due dates and the best for the birth you want.
Hopefully Ill be able to check in more often now Miss M is able to entertain herself a bit more & can comando crawl to where she wants to go. Miss M's sleeping has improved a heap now she has her amber teething necklace. She was waking 6 + times at night, now its only once or twice YAY!!!
skittle bub- wow Maddison is comando crawling, i reember when my Maddison was doing that, how funny is it. but they get such dirty little tummies.
Lizjessie- hope worknig is going alright for you. :)
emma- LMAO giving birth to a chocolate cake, pregnancy dreams are so funny, hope the midwife app went well.
no news here
Hollye - When and how did your PE start with Mia?
LJ - hope you are coping ok at work :hug:
maddie: yeah im effaced but not dialated MW said could be any day now but JIC am booked in for induction next Wed. so either way she will be here in a week! yipee
Well, never ended up going to work. Dr gave me another certificate and basically told me to stay home just for a couple more days - so I am!
Aarrggh i havent been getting any notifications, damn it, ok so im gonna try and catch up now on everything. hehe
First of all Happy mothers day for sunday ladies. I know im a bit late :) Charli is sitting up. YAY, shes getting so big and she commando crawled over 5 metres today in a matter of minutes, was following alyssa trying to get her toy vacume. hehe. so cute. I can't believe how fast shes growing :( Alyssa has to see a Paed cause of her tummy aches and vomiting all the time, GP is stunned and has no idea, DP recons its nothing but i keep telling him its not normal for a child to be sick so often. Hopefully we'll get some answers soon and i am worrying for nothing, all i can think of is the worst case scenario and it scares me.
Tattoo_mama- I love your facebook pic its very nice, i had prof belly photo's done when i was preg with charli they turned out awesome but cost a fortune, lucky u have a friend :p although the couple of stretchies i did have they rubbed out. YAY. Anyday now eh? Are you feeling over it yet? i was in tears when i went overdue. Hopefully you wont need to be induced, tried eating spicy food??? PMSL at your dream, a choc cake eh? weird.
Teagz- Congrats on the BFP, wishing you a H&H pregnancy.
Allioops- DP made me take out my belly button ring with DD1 and now it looks weird its all stretched sideways looks a bit like Tatt Mamas (from her gallery pics). Not long to go now, you must be getting very excited.
Donna- OMG ur so close, that creeped up quick, LOL @ the perfume, lil rascal, atleast she woudl have smelled nice.....and strong. haha. OMG at ur DP how rude is he, i would have slapped him. Damn males, i dont blame u for being pi$$ed i would have been too and as for cracking at u for spending lots of money, how else does he expect to raise a child, this aint the 18th century children require clothes and blankets. Hopefully next yr will be better for you **hugs**
Amy- Yay on the ultrasound, bet it was nice to see bubs lil hb :)
Sal- sorry to hear u were sick, so cute maddie is commando crawling, bet shes gettimg into everything eh? I looked at those amber necklaces but they were big $$$ DP would never got for it :( I feel ya pain on the waking lots, charli goes through stages, some nights she wakes once other nights she wakes 4 times.
LJ- Hope everything is ok, atleast ur getting lots of rest though.
Sorry if i forgot anyone or anything, im gonna be on more often i hope, i've saved the page in my favourites now so i wont worry about the notifications that i never get :(
Kirra- hope all goes well with the paediatrician for Alyssa. when is the appointment?
I cant beleive Charli is 6 months already, that went so quick, and so exciting that she is comando crawling and sitting
Emma- notice you havent been on..... does that mean anything exciting?
maddie: no just been avoiding BB cause am now the last one in my bellies group and half the following group is overtaking me too! went to dinner at DPs parents and saw Pete G and Mya, mya was being hell funny naming everyone round the table but she cant say emma she just goes ehhhhhhhh
folowed me 2 the toilet and i went in and closed the door and she started crying out 'noo ehhhh toilet!!!' i was like chill out! haha
kirra: cheers for the FB add, yeah i got them done a few days before all these stretch marks magically appeard, so ****ed off thought i was gonna get away with none!
had antenatal water aerobics this arvo its so relaxing, wish i could keep going after the baby lol, but nope no contx/anything...
haha, how funny is mya, she is so advanced in her speech its just amazing. shes not even 2 and speaking in actual sentences. i dont know what normal is but i know other children (quite a few) that are almost 3 or old and dont speak as well as her. Maddie is 3 months younger and has really picked up more since being around mya.
sorry to hear no contractions or anything. wishing and hoping it all happens soon!
Lol Kirra, yeah I've been having the same thing with my notifications, some threads tell me when they're updated, others don't and it's only when I go into them that I see new posts?? Weird.
Yeah I was spewing at him, I mean he pretty much figured we could just re-use everything we bought/were given with Emily, I know we have two huge garbage bags full of old clothes/blankets/etc out in the shed but a lot of it will be threadbare, probably moth-eaten, and DD is a grub so most probably won't be able to be used again because it's all stained and been washed to death, kwim?? So yeah he thought I'd just buy some nappies and nipple cream and that was it lol, I had to explain that all Emily's old stuff is pretty much only good for rags... At the very least, I knew I wasn't going to get around to sorting through it all before bubs comes (I have to go out into the shed to do it in case spiders or something have gotten into the bags, I don't want to bring it into the house and let the bugs loose in here lol), so I needed just the basics in case I go into labour early and then I can sort through all the old stuff later on.
Emma, you poor thing, I've got my fingers crossed for you!! I never joined any of the belly buddies groups hahaha, kind of for this reason lol, I would have felt awful if everyone else had theirs and I was still waiting :/
Haha kids are so funny hey, Emily is OBSESSED with following me into the toilet... I caught her in there yesterday gassing herself with air freshener (I don't use the stuff, it just gives me a headache, BIL uses 3/4 of a can every time he goes and stinks out the whole house :/) lol, she has to flush the toilet for us when we go hahaha... gives us toilet paper and everything :D
I can't believe how well she's talking, such a little parrot now :/ DH has taught her swear words, I'm gonna be REAL popular at daycare!! Amy, I think their speech has a lot to do with being around other people/babies, I've noticed Emily has improved sooooo much since she started daycare, she'll be 2 in August and can use full sentences now (although usually it's just a few words to tell me what she wants lol, she gets lazy with mum!)... I have a friend who is at home full-time with her little one (the same age as mine) and he hasn't even got 'mum' and 'dad' down pat yet, I think reading and talking to them constantly helps them out (Emily loooooves storybooks lol).
Had my antenatal appt at the hospital yesterday and asked the doctor to check the gender again for me lol (still holding out for a boy!!) but it had its bum hanging out so he couldn't tell me anything :( He did say that he doesn't reckon I'll make it to my next appt though, blood pressure is slightly up compared to normal and apparently that's a sign? No show or contx tho so maybe he's just a big liar lol :)
Amy- Her app is on June 5th so its not too far away.
Emma- i so wanted to do water aerobics but didnt want everyone to see how huge i was. haha. Hopefully things happen soon, being overdue is so not fun, i had ppl calling me and messaging me everyday which made it even worse.
GothMum- u've def got the right idea, spiders inside is so not cool **shivers** i threw all alyssa's stuff out and bought all new stuff for charli, i didnt want her to have all second hand clothes :( They were all stained and wrecked anyway, at 18 i had no idea how to remove stains. lol
Took alyssa to the doc this morning and waited an hour and a half past my app time, man was i peeved, still am, i was so ****ty and rude to the doctor. Serves him right for making me wait with a grumpy baby who i had to wake up to get there on time and a sick lil girl who was coughing over everyone :rolleyes:
Donna: oooh maybe we can have ours on the same day lol, 4 sleeps til my induction (currently watching a lady on foxtel have an induction hmm NOT FUN) n i told DP if i do have an induction i WILL be having an epidural!! hes not keen on me having any drugs which cracks me up cause him and the boys will prob have cones on the hospital balcony while im in labour :lol:
maddie: yeah i think them being around lots of people makes a huge difference, cause myas always been around petes family and all different people she picks up alot of words. i worry though cause they spoil her and she will turn into a brat, G needs to stand her ground, cause i sure will be with my baby!
kirra: oh yeah ive started ignoring my phone, so annoying when i go to the shops or anything and ppl ask. i should say no its a big tumour actually, thanks :rofl:
want to talk to DP about setting up a direct debit into my account cause hes not the best at remembering to pay bills and stuff, thinking we shud set something up so the night he gets paid the rent money plus like $50 for any bills/savings goes into my account, im the stingiest person ever and manage to save even when i have no money, whereas he will spend every week til his account goes overdrawn, but dunno how to bring it up with him without him having a sad (i think he feels like i try to control him)...any ideas?
Emma: Lol @ the boys :D Sometimes I hate it that DH is soooo not a drinkin' man cuz I would LOVE to go out on the town occasionally (when not UTD, naturally) but he never wants to and I'd feel awful going out with the girls and leaving him at home hahaha, but then there are times when I'm glad he's got no dude friends and spends every minute he's not at work, at home with me hehehe :D When I was in labour I started wanting my mum lol (who was at home and didn't have the car to get up to the hossy) and DH was like, 'Do you want me to go pick your mum up and bring her here?' I'm like 'NOOOOOOO WAY ARE YOU LEAVING ME FOR TWO MINUTES! TELL HER TO CALL A TAXI AND BTW IF YOU NEED TO P!SS YOU'LL DAMN WELL DO IT IN A BUCKET NEXT TO THE BED, YOU'RE NOT GOING ANYWHERE' hahah :D
Hahaha yes let's have ours on the same day and then do each others' BAs from our hospital beds via mobile phone LOL!!
Inductions aren't so bad, I was induced with DD and I only had gas and pethidine... lol gas will take you back if you have it, it really truly does just feel like you've pumped down a few cones and you get the dries lol, that woozy, giggly feeling?? Oh man I was like, 'Chief you HAVE to have a go at this, it feels like smoking pot omg I'm stoned lol' and the midwives were like :o
Lol tell DP to stay in the room and sneak some gas, then he won't need to disappear on you lol :D it feels exactly the same!!
But yeah I didn't need an epi or anything, yeah it hurt like hell but you just gotta try and overcome the natural 'fight or flight' response (apparently you tend to go into 'panic mode' and freak out halfway through lol, that's where things go wrong a lot of the time) and remember that just when you think you couldn't possibly bear another minute, little Jade will be there and it will all be over :D
Plus, induced labours tend to be really short (mine was 4 hours from start to cutting the cord) so that's one bonus :D I'm scared of a natural labour now hahaha, I don't wanna be pushing for 12 hours!!
Re the bills/direct debit thing, maybe try wording it so it's like, you want to start working as a team rather than two people sharing costs, kwim?? Might be less of a blow to his manly ego if you can manage to say it like 'we're not two separate people now, we're a family and that means bills etc are a shared responsibility' etc?? Maybe suggest setting up an account separate to you or him, not necessarily a joint one but just something other than the accounts you have already, and arrange for a bit of money from each of you to go into it and make it solely for the purpose of paying bills, kwim? DH and I have two accounts each, an everyday account that our pays go into/we spend from, and then we each have a separate online account where we can deposit money from our incomes and it is purely dedicated to things like long-term savings/bills - DH's online stash is for a deposit on a house, because he earns heaps more than me so he can put away more, mine is really just to put away whatever money I have left after paying my share of things so that I don't go out and blow it all on makeup and clothes at the end of the week when I see I have $50 left, kwim??
Sometimes I have to go in and take some back out because BIL doesn't cough up his share of the phone bill etc, but even then DH just pays that bit because he doesn't like us dipping into savings...
HTH :)
Donna: your BIL still lives with you how bloody annoying!!! is he planning on moving out soon,...i bet he will want to when theres a toddler and a NB in the house!
:lol: DP cant wait to have some gas he got all excited on the hossy tour and asked the MW if he was allowed some at the birth and she was cool and said 'well if we dont see you have it then we wont know' :rolleyes:
how were u induced? im sure uve told me before but i forgot...im gettin the prostin gel tues arvo then braking my waters wed morning and then they said maybe a drip depending if it starts by itself or not...bit confuzzling but hey?
spoke to DP about the money hes not keen on the idea at the moment...i just think itd be so much easier cause the bills would get paid on time and he wouldnt have to have me nagging him to do it, and whatevers left in his account is his to spend on whatever he wants...
meanwhile just went on c'link website and looking up how much ill get...lucky we get baby bonus for a while or we'd be screwed!!! its cause i owe my dad money which really sucks, without baby bonus (i.e. after it runs out) ill be getting 440 a fortnite and 100 will go straight to my dad....hmph :(
OMG you're so right on the annoying lol... there have been days where I've been scouring realestate.com to find a place for Emily and me, I just get fed up to the gills with him... unfortunately it looks like he'll be around for a while, he's only 16 and is pretty immature for his age (I mean, he's mature enough to go out drinking with his buddies nearly every night and make a godawful racket at 3am when he comes home blind drunk, and expects DD and I to tiptoe around all day because 'he has a headache' - oh gee I wonder how that could have happened? - but he's not mature enough to do a full week of school/hold down a job/pay bills/be independent of us the way DH was independent of his parents when HE was 16...)...
It's just the most messed-up sitch because legally he is entitled to half of this house too so we can't even kick him out when his attitude gets out of control, and we can't leave him here by himself as we're not only his legal guardians, but the other 50% of this house is DH's inheritance (their mum died last year, hence the whole sorry situation lol) and BIL simply can't be left here by himself or guaranteed the house would be trashed, unlivable and unsellable in a matter of weeks... :(
He was having a huge whinge to me yesterday about the 'noise' - our cat is fretting and yowling for the kittens (they went to the pet store the other day and she's looking for them), and DH has put his foot down about the dog so if she is indoors she's confined to the laundry and she yelps and whines every now and then to be let out... BIL stays up all night playing DH's video games, then tries to sleep all day and *****es about how the dog and cat won't shut up and he had *two* pillows over his head and a migraine and oh, feel sorry for meeee, how hard done by I am... *waaahhhh*....
I just snapped that he better harden the f*** up or get the f*** out because soon there's gonna be a newborn baby screaming at all hours of the night AND day, he'll have a headache for months :D
I know it sounds spiteful, but I hope it *does* drive him to go and move in with one of his mates, ey... I have enough stress to deal with with my *own* family, without his crap lol...
Lol *sigh* Sorry for the rant hahahah :D Good ol' pregnant hormones ey, they make you a bit nutty :D
Yeah with my induction I was admitted to hospital at 8am on the Thursday morning, they gave me a dose of gel and I just sat around all day reading, nothing happened, gave me another dose at 8pm and by morning still nothing so at 10am they got me into the birthing suite, popped my waters and hooked me up to the drip (they figured straight onto the drip as the gel hadn't even softened my cervix up so nothing was gonna happen without serious intervention lol, waters alone probably wouldn't have worked)... and yeah it was pretty much on like Donkey Kong from there hahaha, contx came on nice and strong and my body started bearing down, midwife told me to stop being silly, I wouldn't be dilated yet... I screamed at her to check and sure enough in four minutes I'd gone from 1cm to 'holy ***** she's in the canal already, okay you can push!!' lol :D
It was intense, but I reckon I could do it again :D It's just really tiring, is the worst part, so if you can get some sugary drinks in while you're in labour (I could only have iced water as DH and I didn't have any labour prep like food, music etc, I will be taking a crapload of Powerade this time around lol) you'll be fine :)
But hopefully you won't need any of that and things will go naturally :D
can you not offer BIl some money to F off at this age you could give him way less than half and he would think its great lol
GL with that sitch
Donna: i spose its not ideal but if DH and his brother has been left the house, couldnt you sell it and go halves with his brother with the money and use your half of the money to get another place? or at least pay off half of a new place and have a really small mortgage to pay off? that really sucks that he doesnt pull his weight, it irks me so bad that people who dont work or do anything think they are so hard done by, and they get themselves into this downward spiral and it gets worse!!!
i worry cause my folks just did up thier will (neither of them are sick but they just wanted it done) and gave me a copy and cause my brother is disabled (down syndrome) hes been left 50% and me and my sister get 25% each, which i have no problem with at all infact im happy hes getting more, but i was reading it and theyve put me as carer of his trust/inheritance which freaks me out cause not only will i be caring for him and trying to find somewhere for him to live (at the moment lives with my folks) but also trying to manage a 6 figure fund for him.... yipes thanks for asking my input mum and dad lol :rolleyes:
as for induction, on tuesday they did internal and said i was fully effaced but not dialated so i guess that means my cervix is pretty much ready to go, so the prostin gel alone may do the trick? i told DP that semen has prostoglandins in it (like the prostin gel) and i think he thought they put semen in you to induce you and was giving me this freaked out look it was pretty funny :lol:
hey guys
hope i fit into this thread :S
i guess im wanting some support for younger couples.
hows everyones pregnancy/ babies going along?
how do you find things being a young parent
im only 23 and DF is only 24 probably not super young but i feel so young atm haha
xox
Me and DF are having an issue. Ive had a bit of trouble this week with the pregnancy and DF took some time of work ( a week) which was lovley. I felt a little like a child being cared for but it was nice to have the time with DF. But i was cleared today and i asked DF if he was going back to work this week and he said he is probably going to take another week off work.We really need money at the moment and DF is in a desk job that is about to offer a promotion which will pay very nicely. But when i confronted him about going back to work he got very defensive saying i didnt want him there and i didnt apreciate him. How can i tackle a sensative fiance? It seems impossible.
welcome lauren, hmm thats a toughie...not that i am good at taking my own advice but maybe sit down with him , maybe over dinner or a coffee/tea, and let him know you love him etc, maybe something at work has upset him and thats why hes taking extra time off? are you working also? if not maybe he is feeling under alot of pressure to provide for the both of you? let him know you do appreciate him and want him around, and that this new life is one you made 'together' and therefore need to contribute together, if this means him working and you stay home and do housewifey stuff, then so be it. HTH
thanks for the advice tatoo_mama
im not working at the moment im in uni though.
he hasnt mentioned to me anything bad thats happened i will deffinatly asked him though.
He says hes worried about me and its a 40 minute drive to work for him and he thinks if something happens he wont be there to help me. When we thought i miscarried he cried and said im never leaving you because he was at work at the time. I dont know what exactly is wrong probably the stress of him working and studying too is stressful. Oh the troubles of young couples! haha
Hi Lauren and welcome to BB.
Where bouts in melb u from? (if u dont mind me asking) :)
Your poor DF, thats so sweet that hes worried about u, i had a scare last yr when i was preg with DD#2 and my DP was lovely enough to stay at home with me, i dont think i could have coped if he didnt. Hopefully the rest of ur preg will be smooth sailing.
hey thanks for the warm welcome:)
im in macleod but am often found with my mother (my rock) in taylors lakes.
Who would of thought pregnancy was more stressful than year 12 ahahah
:ROFL:
things seemed to have settled i have an ob father which is handy but he always thinks im over reacting mum is actually more help hahah.
lauren: lol yr 12 was a breeze compared to this (hmm maybe cause thats cause i wagged most of it lol)
how handy having an OB dad, we dont have PHI so have had to go public but so far am happy with the midwife care ive received. and yes sit down with ur DF n have a chat, if 'somethings gotta give', i.e. for him to relax abit, id have to say unfortunately itd be the study, cause u need income, study can atleast be postponed. babies respond to stress even when in the womb so its important the both of you stay as calm as possible (here i go again with my advice i dont take myself)
haha i worked my ass off in yr 12!!!
got a 91 had so many plans
but opted for travel with DF.
then planned uni but instead was blessed with tiger.
How things change ey?
I'm generally a stressed person and after this week im following everything by the book to keep tiger in there.
I keep almost writing he. I think tigers a he but we shall see in a bit.
uni work is currently killing me.
:hello: Lauren Welcome to BB
I am 23, as is DH. I have MCed while DH was working away and MCed while he was home, and both times he really didn't know what to say or do. All I needed really was hug, but sometimes he doesnt get the body language that is asking for it :rolleyes:
Having your Dad as an Ob would help with the physical things, but for the emotional stuff that comes with pregnancy you just can't beat having your mum hey ;)
I agree completely, year 12 is nothing compared to pregancy and parenthood!!
I've come to the conclusion DF is clueless.
He just told me i should have an ecs because tiger is a trouble maker and its safer.
Good god internet has corrupted my once sane Beau's head
hahahahahaha
my mates were always ****t off with me cause i wagged almost everyday of yr 12 n still got 82 for my TEE (not fabulous but not bad either)...and yeah i went to uni for 3 weeks, hated it, quit, went to tafe, quit, and for the last 4 yrs was a topless barmaid! so much for the 10k a yr my parents spent on private girls school LOL and remember everything happens for a reason it may b hard but u will learn and grow from it...man i shud write a self help book :lol:
i was private school educated from kinder
and i was a party animal
ahahaha
i buckled down because i wanted to be a lawyer.
but decided its too boring just started primary education and got pregnant ahahaha
was i meant for uni?
is tiger a sign?
im sure it is....i was only with DP 2 weeks before i got pg and we r still going strong. do u have FB lauren u can add me (link below)