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We want another when Miss K is 2/3 then after the next one he wants to wait until the second is in school. But i've always said i want all my kids before im 25 and i dont want too bigger age gaps between them. My SIL said shes having another baby next year so perfect a cousin close in age to DD so think child 2 and 3 should be close in age so they dont feel left out and have someone to play with.
But he said that when the 3rd is in school we can possibly have two more. We love the idea of a big family but only if we can afford to give each of them a good life.
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sarah atleast you can prevent urself getting utd again if you dont want more, dh says he doesnt want more but doesnt wear protection to stop it soits easy to get my way, but i wouldnt have more if i could not handle the kids i have....... i would love to get pg right now, but im thinking i can only scam max 2 more so dont want the whole baby thing to be finished in the next couple years so would rather a 2 year age gap
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serenity, id love to be able to protect myself from having more! so far i either have an adverse reaction to contraception, or it has no effect! but it looks promising, the doctor i am with for this pg dosent feel having my tubes done at 23 is a wise choice, but is confident he has the answer!! guess ill wait and see! my dad is one of 12, and dfs dad is one of 13, and he is one of 6, so hes all for the idea of a huge soccer team family, im fine with the idea of 4, now ive had a few weeks to get use to the idea!! just trying to get my mums you-can-do-as-you-please-brain washing out of the boys and we will be right!
bit sad df isnt working tommorow:( not at the fact he wont be going to work, but the face we wont be getting up at 6 for coffee and breakfast together with out the kids being up:( i already said to him we should get up early and do breakie but he dosent want to get up early on his day off!!! how rude!!
well i must try get to sleep. got to try talk df into droping the kids and i off at the old play group tommorow for a catch up. night everyone
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serenity your partner sounds like mine
after this one i dont want contraception as if we do decide to have more i might concieve sooner as both these bubs have taken awhile, so i told DP he's wearing condoms and his response was no u know i hate them so im kiinda exspecting to have a closer age gap if i cant make him use condoms!! (i think secretly he wants 3, but wont admit it) PLUS its sad thinking this could be my last :( but i wont go anymore then 3, thats all a standarrd car will take lol
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wow love talking about maybe more kids..
we decided once the second is in school and ree is close to being in school we will go again maybe..
as its teh day care costs which kill us.
i would really love one more. i just dont feel done.
but it means hubby wll be 43 :p lol
and i want my chance to breastfeed longer i finally got it working with ree but had to stop due to work. and if i work for 3 years i will have 12 months maternity leave paid so i can do 12 months of breastfeeding :D:D:D
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Sarah, hope you can figure something out.
I had my tubes tied last month, at 24.
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I wonder if the Real Estate Agent is pranking to see if youre home! I hope he wouldnt go to your house when youre not there!!! Hope its all settled down now Sarah!
Our baby journey has just begun, i want more kids, DP never used to but he's ready to go again ASAP hahaha he has to give me some time to recover and spend with DD first tho! Not sure when ill be ready for number 2, maybe when DD is one we will try again. Took us 18 months to get UTD so will see how we go!
Congrats again PZ! You must be so so excited!!
Big hello to everyone :D Im having a very productive day at home, got so much cleaning done and finally got DD to nap in her cot during the day instead of the bouncer! Woohoo! See if she does it again tomorrow!
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more silly issues with houses in mackay :(
but i decided i will make myself a skirt today
kinda a bad idea as i had to measure my waist. and well lets say im on a diet now. i cant remember the last time my waist was this size :(:(
im feeling fat as well like feel big all over again :(
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nawww kawa lets diet together!! I went shopping the other day and ended up buying nothing because it all looked like crap!!
Whats up with the houses?
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i'll joing that diet im upto a size 14 :( i only have 8-10kg to lose thats placed itself on my stomach
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I hate the different sizes in clothes some 14 Jean are loose some 16 shorts are too tight just have one measuring system and im starting now cos I just had mcs and a mcflurry
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im starting as well.
100cm waist/hip sorta in between hips ( muffin top) area, i have never been that big when not pregnant..
its all belly fat :( but also my bum is bigger..
need to start walking daily and eating better..
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i'll be joining once this baby is here i wanna get into my size 10 jeans i havent worn for almost 3 yrs fingers crossed
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thats the sad bit for me, i got back into my size 10 jeans like 4 months after ree was born, then i stopped breast feeding adn its all piled on :(
size 16 :( im depressed..
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i thought i'd stick my nose in here...now to catch up on the last 7 pages!
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The jeans im wearing right now are a size 14 but the top is an 18 due to my long torso big boobs broad shoulders and to cover up my fat.
I'll do my measurements i'll probably cry though.
When i met my DP i was 68kgs im now 100kgs :redface: :( but i want to get to 75kgs.
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I'm 77kgs, before ttc I was 60kg...now I'm utd Im not so worried about weight, I get pretty bad m/s so I'll probs lose weight the first tri...but after bubs I want to work on getting down to 58.
