Thanks everyone for your replies, it's great to hear everyones point of view! I had my EPU yesterday I had 11 eggs and I recieved the news today that 8 fertilised :-) , so luckily I am able to give a 5 day blastie a shot (on Saturday) .... I'm only transfering one though :-) decided to just give the standard a go before I get to hasty!

This is such a ****ty process and so many people go through it over and over again :-( Good luck to you all... as we all know it will be worth it in the end!