what N2l said.... if they are doing IVF then the FS should know the health status of both of them.... each cycle failing sucks and all you can do is pick yourself up and try again..... maybe she would like to join BB? that's been the best support I have found, and maybe she could ask all the questions she asks....

I wish I knew what else I could do too... after 5 failures (and many of the girls have MANY more than me...) it just stabs your heart every time....