you are a beautiful friend! You know, I think just being there and listening to her with out saying all the old cliched (sp?) things. Asking her to still do all the normal things you would have done before and not leaving her out cause you dont know if she will comfortable. I also reackon not hiding friends pregnancies from her, that I found awful, especially when I found out off people who werent so much my friends you really are just lovely!