Not sure if this is in the right spot.. so mods, feel free to move!

DP and I have a slight spanner in the works for our TTC journey. Well a big one if you think about it really. Not really sure why we hadn't considered it earlier - swept up in the excitement of it all!

DP's sister passed away at 15 months old from muscular dystrophy. Those who have known me a while on bb will remember me asking about PGD years ago, because my uncle has muscular dystrophy. That means it is in both mine and DP's gene pools.

Neither of us know if we are carriers, so it seems natural and responsible that we investgate this further.

I was concerned years ago when I was with my ex-H as to whether I may be a carrier, but never went through to testing because my relationship with my ex-H broke down and ended. I haven't thought much about it since. It could be very likely that I am not a carrier, my uncle being the one affected - but the chance is still there.

DP's chances are higher, due to the fact it was passed onto his sister.

DP and I were talking last night and he mentioned it and we both agreed we should at least consult someone. Not getting crazy worried or anything, but definitely think it's worth investigating.

I have emailed Melbourne IVF about genetic counselling to find out what we need to do with our GP first before getting a referral. They may say its nothing to worry about, or we may get tested and find that we both aren't carriers. Knowing is better than not knowing in this case I think - and it should just be a simple matter of a few blood tests.

Would love to know others experiences!!