Hi there,
I'm a guy and its taken me a long time to work out all your short handed letters and meanings but here goes, Me and my wife had been trying for 2 years to have children and unable, we went to the doctors and they said just keep trying and see how you go, we had already had 2 miscarriages over the 2 years, we thought it was time to try and find out what was wrong with us, so we went to melbourne ivf in January and we both got tested, found out that i was 99% abnormal swimmers and i was devastated! I am 30 and my wife is 28, if we didnt go and pressure the docs for a referral we could of wasted another year. Anyway we started getting everything together in January and we were advised by melbourne ivf to do icsi, we have just finished our first cycle and just finished (today) the 2 week wait, wow it felt like a month!! anyway just got the results and my wife and I are PREGNANT!!!! Dont hold off, its better to know something is wrong then put more stress on the relationship because of frustration and constantly thinking when is it going to be my turn. I know im a guy but you ladies are very tough (especially after watching what my wife has been thru, the emotional roller coaster and the constant questions and medication.
I wish everyone the best of luck and wanted to say thanks because good or bad experience in ivf the last couple of months has been a lot easier with every ones posts on here for the 100's of questions i have wanted answer to!!