A year into having four children and I am finding it tricky to stay on top of changing of sheets... there is so much to do to stay afloat, I used to change their sheets once a week and now I go alot longer than that now *hides face*.... I just can't seem to get on top of this job... the house is clean and tidy, I make nearly all of our food from scratch, I work at night from home, I do all the extra activities tied to four children, I spend alone time with each one of them nearly every day, the washing isn't piled up, the floors are always mopped...

How long is it between sheet changing at your house... do I just have to relax and stop feeling bad about this?? I have changed so deeply with the birth of my fourth, I have let go of so much and our family is so full of joy and connection...but when I wash the sheets I feel guilt!!!!

Wise words appreciated of mama's of four or more!!! At this stage getting the kids to do it is not possible... but that will happen eventually!