Congradulations maz!
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Congradulations maz!
Blood test inconclusive??!! What does that mean?? Having ultrasound when bleeding stops to make sure everything is normal... form says " ? product of conception" Do they not know? Hubby picked up my referal so havn't spoke to doc today yet..
aww im sorry no answers were given to you today :( *hugs*
Purple sweet, sounds like you could be or were pregnant to me! When can you get to your GP love?
Storm, we are heading to Moree maybe at the end of the year will you still be living close to there by then?
YAY maz he is perfect, well done.
Soul, I would make a special trip just to meet you!!
Jodie, hope you are well, sux they cant give you any real answers.
Welcome Chubbycheeks!!!!!!!
Purple i know i had an inconclusive test result with this pg! So what inconclusive means is that there are levels of pg hormones but that it is under 25. I guess from what they are saying is that they will wait until after you finish bleeding to see if the pg stuck or got washed away with your bleed! Good luck hun i hope you are doing ok!
Storm do you have a pic of maz's little boy? i bet he is gorgeous. Well i am glad that all went well for maz and can't wait til she back again!
soul how is your doula course going i haven't been around much and am way behind with everything!!! I hope you are well and hey what happened with you going to doc???? I hope everything is ok there!
well i am off to town to grab a few things and haven't really got any exciting plans for the day other than housework and washing!!!!!! Will catch up again soon
good morning ladies :) i only have 3 home today and 1 of those is sick :( poor little miss .. so much to do but no motivation it seems. hope all is well and purple i hope you get some news soon :hug:
Hello ladies
IM BACK!!!! ahahahah - sore lots more grey hairs but happy. We didnt have a nice birth, Mateauz was born not breathing and blue so spent first few days in SCN (yes totaly agree Jess - they are fantastic in there). Has had some 'episodes' of not breathing early on but all good now. Is a BF bandit...just like his daddy, love the boob. feels great 2 have 2 in cloth (3 if you include me ;) ) and BFing. I have high BP still...have to go to my doc's asap about it.
I feel like ive been away for alife time..My god! so much to catch up on.
BBL when Ive finished being a nosey parker
:confetti:Welcome back and huge congrats to you and your fam Maz!!!!!! :grouphug:
Your little boy :stork-boy: is absolutely gorgeous!!
Sounds like you guys got off to a pretty rough start, I am so glad everything is ok and that you are doing good too!
Its sooooooo good to have you back!!!!!!!!!!
Maz, If you have any worries give me a buzz and I'll try and help in some ways...as you know I have had some experience in that area.
He is gorgeous though hun and when you feel like it, we would love to hear his birth story...What nurses were on in SCN???? I have spent so much time in there over the past 8 years, they all know me and my kids have a special place in their hearts.
Wow its soooooo quiet in here!!!!!!!!!
Well i guess we do all have a big fam to run after, hence not always free time to sit here!
Well not much happening here, Mitchie had physio today with his new physio lady, she was really good with him and spent the time trying to win him over! He was quite cheeky but in the end was doing things with her so that was great!
Then i went and finally put the kids school book lists in at the newsagency to be done for me! I also bought myself some new PJ's and dark coloured knickers for my hospital bag!!!! ITs the first thing i have done towards getting ready for this bub!!!!!!!!!!
Not much else going on here, hopefully we will get the council out in the next couple of weeks to give us the go ahead for our extensions and then it will be busy busy busy here....
Ok well hope everyone is well, and maz i hope you are getting a little less sore every day!
Hey Guys I am still here Just so busy.. I had to get a job. long story but just know that we needed the income.. Love it but it takes so much time out of my week with the kids.
We pulled out our bathroom so that is a huge stress.. Getting trades men to turn up sucks. It is almost like they dont even want to do the quotes.
Kat ~ You are game doing extensions while you are Preg. Good luck with all that.
Maz ~ Hope that you are feeling better and getting enough sleep.. :D :D
Every one else.. **Waves a big hello**
Hi ladies. Bleeding stopped after 4 days. Ultrasound next week, but if it was just a yucky, late af i'll be near O time, so i'm just gonna dtd just in case. I hate not knowing what my body is doing....How is everyone?? I hope you and your little man are going good maz...
Hi all,
Am hoping it is ok to crash this thread, am fairly new to bb and have four children Gabby 12, Cody 8 Luke 7 and Cooper 9mnths.
hello lovelies...i did do a big posta nd friggen well lost it....grrrr my brian is so not what it use to be!!!!!!
We're getting there slowly and I swear the quicker Jed goes to work again the better atm....he is driving me spare! example, I dont let Vy eat potatoe chips and here he is giving them to her while I was trying to have a power nap, Vy gags cause one is stuck in her throat, I tell him to put his finger down there and he screams at me, Vy comes to me and throws up in my hand, I ask for a cloth and he brings me a little face washer......maz then proceds to throw hand full of spew right at Jed...yep had enough of him I told you's all.
Thank god tomorrow is payday cause we're going out to big w to buy some essentials and get out of the house in the morning. I hate being tied down and not being able to do and go as I please.
ETA - if you see newsheads lines tonight about a man who has been strung by his balls in the tree in his front yard...you know its Jed and I caved in and went NUTS
**** Maz, LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, well I shouldnt laugh but come on, would you not laugh it it was me saying it like that? I think we should form a seret "String em by the balls" group!
I'm getting that way as well girls except it will be more like hanging him from the balls from the verandah
Lmao, i had a good chuckle when i read your post Maz! I can totally understand it though! Husbands are wonderful but sh#t its nice when they are at work.............
Well i have had a very busy afternoon, our bunks finally arrived for the girls room so we got tehm home and have been in their bedroom since 4pm!!!! I just came out to look something up on puter cause i have finished cleaning all the walls...
Anyway i best get back to what i am supposed to be doing.
Hey how is your doula course going soul???
ok got to go chat later!!!
I had the lovely Raven come to my home for lunch today...oh it was so nice to have female company (sorry mum I love you BUT........ I cant tell you my ja ja hurts with a straight face).
Jed has been given his balls back after he redeamed himself by buying me a beautiful diamond ring. Its a band with 10 diamonds in it...one for every baby we have had together (including our angel babies)...I cried so much, thank god im not the makeup wearing kind.....I so dont like Panda eyes.
kat - what kind of bunks did you get the girls???? We got low line bunks because we have ceiling fans and I was scared that Nikolaus would chop his head off. Please explain lady????? and how are ya feeling..$hit 14 weeks to go or are you having your c/s on week 39???
Jess - ROFL I pictured a set of nuts nailed up with those rusty old farming nails....hahhahahah must be the country men up here ;)
Soul - oh I like that as a thread - Balls hangers thread.....men moments we HATE!!!!! Forgot to put down that half the spew that I threw at Jed landed...yepa right in the kisser!!!! Im such a cow!!!
Oh need to have a drink...good old milo hmmmm
I'll be going that club please. I've had DH in my face since 23rd October. Don't worry I feel sorry for me too. Thank whoever that he is 800k's away from me right now.
OMG and all in a 2 room house.....You need a medal hon!!!!!
ha ha ha I know!!! So glad he isn't here now, although I could prob use some sperm right now.
Hey Maz i think the bunks are called bounty bunks. They are not low line but the fan in the girls room doesn't work and is being taken out as they have air con in there now. That was my reason for not wanting bunks up until now though because i could envision that happening too!
Yep 14 wks until due date! The midwives are more than happy for me to try natural again but i have to go see the surgeon on the 30th and let him know my decision and make him realise it is a very informed one!!!! The midwife says i to just tell him how it is as i know what i am on about and NOT to let him use his scare tactics on me! So i will do battle in a week and a half!!!!!
Storm you do deserve a medal!!!!!!!!!! You will have to get him to feeze some sperm for when he is away at the wrong time!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Well i am sick and tired of doing 100km trips for DS work!!! It is just getting too much, its a 50km return trip but then you have to go back and get him ! We have told him if he doesn't get this apprenticeship that he is going for that he is going to have to find part time work in our home town. He of course thinks this is most unfair and we are the worst parents in the world atm, so we said well if you want to keep you job then we will have to start charging you for fuel as of next week! he is starting to think about changing jobs now!!!!! Still not happy with us but i don't care, nothing in this life is free and maybe its time he learnt that! We have not been charging him for fuel or anything as we wanted him to save for his car, he now has over $2500 for a car so its time for a change. It costs us at least $70 a week to run him back and forth and we just can't afford it no more!
Anyway thats my whinge for today and now i have to go get DD ready for her friends birthday party.
Take care all
Those rusty nails are going to be used for the children as well soon!
Maz have you heard of Dave Angel and his parenting for Aspergers courses? They are free courses and I have them all, just thought you might be interested
Goodness me Kat, I would be saying no more too!! Gosh that is alot of driving, fuel & K's getting put on the car. I dont blame you.
Yeah tell me about it, especially when he does 4 and sometimes 5 shifts a week!!!!
Well i just had my Dad and step mother over for the whole afternoon, it was great to see them as they have been in NZ since the 11th of dec, but it was good that they left too as their DD ( age 7) is soooo naughty!!! She was sitting playing with Mitchie and turns around and says oh i am an ar$ehole!!! I got up her as i don't want that to be in Mitchie's vocab. Thankfully so did her mum but she jsut don't stop, she is soo rough with Mitchies toys and nasty to my kids pulling their hair and slapping them!!!!!
Great now that makes two whinges in one day for me!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry girls, but glad she gone!
GOt to go whip up a meal will come back later
well hi everyone its been a while heaps has happened to get to the points i got a job and another job lined up weve move in our 2 bed shed to start savin for our house its a 2 yr plan ,,,,
all was looking good getting money extra and all
and yep u would guess it i knew it would happen when its the most inconvinient bloody time im preggos,,,
idont have any clue as we havent been dtd much due to our diff shifts no bed time 2getehr and all .
my dp is not happy he wants me to have an abortion he says we just cant afford it, im thinkin im goin to leave him if i have to ... i dont think i can do it he says thats not the option me leaving him but really wat does he expect i dunno im so confused,, the doc wants me to have an ultrasound so thats a 2wk wait she said i could b 11 wks or anything just not sure on dates so we need an ultrasound .. this really is surreal it hasnt sunk in cause i catch myself syaying what if im preg which the test showed clearly preg,,, i wasnt planning on another one sso im very shocked i cant sleep im thinkin about it all
so if i was about 8 wks waitin 2 wks 4 the ultrasound that would delay the whole thing and id b top late for the abortion this is wat im hoping but im really unsure as a few things happened before this my baby just stopped bf for no reason have been unwell , thibngs like this but then no i wouldnt b that far i think as i show very early
well any thoughts here gals
thanks
take care all
savina
OMG Savina- what ahead **** sorry hon, You need to work out what is best for you at this time and if your not comfortable with an abortion then dont do it...you'll regret it for the rest of your life...but dont leave your hubby over something like this either unless its just the icing on the cake for you. I fyou need to talk...you know were we are hon...in the mean time, take some time to think for yourself and your family. We're always here for you.
Kat - can your DS get a small road bike and ride to work himself???? Is it really worth the petro for you to take him there andback all the time?? what a pain in the rectum!
Storm - omg ive been slack..I havent been you know were in a while.....I just cant keep up atm!!!!
Jess- thank you so much for the offer but im going to have to decline. I made a rule a long time ago that I would stay away from any litriture and try to do it my way. Ive been pretty successful so far and we are getting there...maybe I should write a book on my ways...hmmm now there's a thought!
friggen Jed is giving me the $hits again. 2 more weeks, 2 more weeks that it I just hope HE survives it!
Thats cool hun...I'd love to read your book on how to cope with Autism
chapter one would be on using your hubby as a punching bag for starters ROFL
Rofl Maz!! I've made you a cuppa, it's going cold honey!! Ah that is such a sweet photo in your ticker, you know I am still waiting for mine to be emailed hint hint ..........
Ah Savina, you poor thing! Hope you are able to sort your DH soon, & things work out for the best.
Oh Kat ( now I know that's not your name, I remember you did tell us ages ago, but I forgot he he he) I dont blame you for having a whinge I'd be pretty ****ed too!!
Hello Mel, sorry for not posting to you sooner, but I'm too slack nah I'm just sorry. You are more than welcome to join us, we are a crazy bunch, but having loads of kids you'd have to expect that .
I never seem to say much about me do I? Well nothing is happening, anywhere I am a boring so & so. LOL
have sent you an email now matie...hope my little man doesnt look to blue in them....stupid oxygen level thing!!! grrrr
Nah he looked gorgeous Maz. Thank you
Maz he doesn't even have his learners for a car yet!!! He has tried 3 times and failed! Your right its not actually worth him working for us, BUT its more a principle thing. So he realises that nothing is for free and the only way you get money is to get off your backside and get a job! He has agreed to pay fuel from now on, which is good. It doesn't cover the costs of wear and tear but fuel is a big cost! Plus he has started to look for part time work in town in case he doesn't gt the apprenticeship he is going for! So we are finally making some progress.....
Your pic of your little boy is gorgeous! Was it a professional pic??
Thanks for letting me vent it out here it really does help!
Storm my name is Kathy, so Kat, Kath or Kathy ( prob some others people like to use too) are all fine.
I have to read back through posts, did i miss a new recruit?????
Savina huge hugs hun, i can imagine this is a very emotional time for you atm! Just hang in there, once you find out how far along you are things will just fall into place. I agree with Maz too that if you don't want an abortion then don't be talked into it because you will never forgive yourself or the person who talked you into it in the long run!
We are all here if you need to vent, cry, scream or even laugh hysterically! I know i ddi a bit of the laughing hysterically when i found i was PG with #7. We certainly didn't plan it, but i say everything happens to us fora reason and obviously even though it wasn't in your plans for now this beautiful soul has decided its time to come into your world. Anyway that is my theory but you got with what you feel and believe hun.
So how long ago did bub self wean from you??
hi guys just popping in to say hi we move next thursday so ver busy here and getting married in 15 weeks getting excited but god its stressfull moving and organizing a wedding im so stressed out
cant wait to the girls go back to school so i can have a five min timeout if jess lets me
how is everybody
congrats maz hes gorgeous
katstribe- he was 9mths his now 10 AND a half mths ....not sure if this has anything to do with it... but it did happen when i fell pg with dd i was bf my son when i fell pg with my dd , happened when he was 10mths last time,, i thought it was strange whne he did stop bf this tiome round and thought oh this has happened bfore see he was a reall booby addict then just stopped almost over nite, i do remember thinkin about it but ill have to have an ultrasound to see how far i am before i make any drastic decisions..
please dont judge me but ive rang an abortion clinic for counselilng to clear a few thougfhts and im still thinking about it on my terms of course ive really got alot happoening atm with a new job and another job which i have an interview 4 2morrow.. its been a while since ive worked ive never really worked because iv aleways had kids so i feel like i need to do something for myself,,, just my thoughs atm they change everyday im mixed up torn btween thoughts
and i founds a fresh snake skin in my room its only juist shed it it was all curled up on one of my cupboards as i went t5o get a pair of knickers so were staying at my mil until dp finds the snake im really worried about it its scared the hell outa me
everyone have a nice day
talk soon
savina
Ok just a quick post to let you all know that i had my 4D scan on Thursday and we are expecting a Little Girl, Molly Grace.
I thought i really wanted another boy but i was very excited to know it was a little girl!!Of course this means more shopping as i have no girl stuff!!!!! A friend offered to throw a baby shower for me and i think i just might take her up on that now!!!
Savina how are you going?? IT could have a lot to do with why bub self weaned!
I don't think anyone here would judge you on your decision. I know i wouldn't and i know for myself personally i don't agree with them but i think everyone is different and you have to do whats right for you and nobody else! Please let us know how everything is going..
Jesabell, sounds like you are one very busy woman!!! Good luck with the move and keep us informed of how the wedding plans are going!!!
Its been a bit quiet in here, is that because everyone is busy getting back to school stuff organised??? I know thats what i have been doing, and they go back tomorrow here, yay!!!!! The first week will be great for me and then we will be abck into swimming and whtever else so then i will be over it all pretty quick!
Spent wednesday morning up at the hospital as i had a bleed. It was a bit strange, i had just been talking to my Mum on the phone and she asked how the PG was going and i said yeah i feel gret this time round! Then got off the phone and went to toilet and bam!!!
They couldn't see a reason for it and said i could either stay and be monitored or go home and keep an eye on things myself! Of course i came home and i had a lot of back and lower tummy pain ( possibly contractions) but they eventually stooped and all has been good so far!
Anyway best go a million things to do before tomorrow morning!
Take care everyone
congrats kathy!
ok well i go to the clinic tomorrow ,,
which i will b releived as im hoping that i will reach a decision that im happy with ,, dp said the other day that he had been thinkin about it and that all this bad things that r happenin to us atm could b cause of wat we r thinkin about doing basically kharma,,, so he had a change of thought and that he will b ok if i dont go through with a termination he changed his mined again yesterday and then again 2day he thinks i wont do it anyway so he has prepared himself for that also ,, which im happy for as i dont think ill be going through with it ....
u know its been a reall shock 2 me more so then when i found out i was preg at 17 ,,, me and dp spoke about 4 never thought about 5, we had so much plans me working, the house to b built within 2 yrs, so we didnt have to live in our shed, i felt happy with the 4 so its been a huge shock
im going to have 5 kids with 3 being under 3,,
im worried about the preg the birth and surviving it all actuallyy to be truth full im scared,,,
well u ladies will have to tell me how u cope with more than 4 kids especially when my eldest is 10 ..
have a nice day
savina
Hi everyone soory i not posting in here mych, i think like everybody else i am spending all my puter time on maz's thread to see how Mateauz is doing!! Sounds like he is improving and out of humidy crib as of this morn which is fantastic news!!!!!!
Thanks for the congrats soul its great to see you on, i guess you are extremely busy as we don't see you much anymore!
Hey Savina how are you doing?? As for coping well i guess we just do it because we have to! There really isn't much if any difference from 4 to 5 though! I just try to write down my days in advance so that i can manage and hopefully not forget anything! It is much easier the younger they are in my opinion too, because once they hit teenage years thats when the fun (NOT) really starts! Plus of course then they go and get P/T jobs which is just more running around for us!!!
Anyway let us know how you went and i hope you are doing ok which ever way you chose to go!
Well not much happening here, its my DD Zoe's 6th Bday today so i am in the process of baking a cake and trying to do housework and washing done at the same time! Anyway i best get going because Mitchie is in here trying to help me type and getting cranky with me!!!!