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Thansk Jo ( i think) I will feel better once i have spoken to doc i suppose
I didnt cope very well emotionally when i had a cs with mitchie so am really hoping dont have to go down that road again. But that was my second CS so i dont know.
I am really confused atm
Well i am the same as you and so is DH, we both said well obviosuly there is meant to be another little one in our household! So once i get over the shock and know where i stand medically i guess i will start to get excited
aw sweetie, if it wasnt emant to be you would not be kwim? I know what you eman about c-sections though I have had two now as well and well my last was absolute torture, and doc said I would definatley have to have another ne now as after two they will not allow a vbac.
Yeah i do know what you mean soul, Dh and i are basicly just laughing now as i dont think it has sunk in. We know we can handle another bundle of joy but geeeeeees we gonna have to get the extension done pronto!!!!!
Thats the part that scares me with the whole cs, i had 4 successful vbac after my first being a ecs, but i dont think they will go for me having a vbac this time but i wll be asking all the Q's and getting as much info as possible
wel if its ok can I pick your nbrain tomorrow about somethings ttc/preg related? I am sitting here with my eyes bulging out my head but got so excited to read your post I ddint want to leave yet, cant you tell by all my spelling mistakes!!!lmao., Do the kids know yet> Bet they are excited when they know. Oh great do you know what you have done to me now???????????? I want another one!!!!! wE WERE SUPPOSED TO BE TTC BUDDIES!!! I am so happy for you sweteie I truly am. Feels like I have known all you girls forever.
GRRRRR my puter just decided to go offline!!!!
Anyway LMFAO soul you trully make me laugh!!!! Sorry for not waiting for you but apparantly this one had other ideas!!!
You can pick my brain but you will have to get in quick before it is scrambled again assuming it had time to unscramble!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I also understand the tired thing and even more now that i have had to wait for my puter to get over itself !!!
Anyway goodnight and i shall jump on here again tomorrow
We are in the UNITED KINGDOM (North Wales) SOUL....so I guess somebody has a lot of travelling to do for us to meet up.................rather you than me......:p
DH has just told me it must be Monday 27th August in your part of the world today?
Is it really......blimey, we're still on Sunday............always reckoned we were a bit backward over here, never realised we were sooooooo behind though!!!!:D
Katstribe.............congratulations, wonderful surprise for you then.
Hope all goes well for you, take good care of yourself.:clap:
Just wondering..............what time is it in Australia now.... I am posting this at nearly 7:30pm UK time, so was wondering what's the time difference between us.
hiya all - wow have you girls been busy chatting all weekend - I don't know how you all get the time!!! Welcome Jay Jay and congrats on the pregnancy Katstribe. I am busting to get pregnant again! I wana pop out a few more before I am 40 then see how I go from there. I know people who are still having kids in their 40's but as for me I didn't start my periond till I was 17yo so reckon I could finish at the other end in my 50's!!!!! Its Monday and so hard to get going, Have a good week girls.
Hi again - forgot to add - we got our new van!!!!!! A 12 seater and its wonderful!!! There is even room to put my oldest boys electric wheelchair in instead of just the fold up one. You can imagine how much easier it is with him propelling himself with I am out on my own with the kids. It is hard to push a buggy and a wheelchair! I often have my 7 year old oushing the buggy with baby in it, My oldest in his chair with my 3 year old strapped on his knee, then have the 2 girls walking at the sides. We look a real sight when out!! I don't know whether its snobby Gold Coast people or now but lately when I have been out with all my kids I have had some real nasty comments and stares! I have heard people say omg shes got 6, stupid woman. Or #%*@$ save the world and get rid of all those kids!!! I think people just like to be negative about anything that is a bit different, I always make an effort to have my kids looking tidy when we are out and they are usually well behaved so why pick on me!!!! Seeing some kids out I would rather have my 6 than their spoilt little only child brat!! Well thats enough off my moan on that - but I am buzzed to have our new van! Chow!
Halltribe, the van sounds fab.
Soul, if you want another VBAC, come up to the John Hunter. They will let you have one there even if you've had 2 c/secs.
Kat, congrats!!!!!!!!!!!! You underhanded rascal!
oh my god halltribe how nasty they should be saying good on that mum not running you down .
congrats on your new van
kat im so excited for u congrats .
jay jay did I mention I havent ever had a holiday!!!! So your place is looking good, so long as somene else does all the cooking while I sit back and do absolutley "Nothing"!!!!!
Kat did I say congradulations already????? Did I say you were supposed to wait for me??? But hey, I will let this one slip, we can ttc together after you have this one, I 'll give you a month or two though to get over this bubs before I make you start all over again, whattcha think? Ok brain picking time, oh that sounds so much better than saying nose picking doesnt it! OK I am shocked you got pregnant, I truly thought you could not have much of a chance to fall while BF and not getting ole hag AF! So you still concieved??? Also catsle just daid you can still have a vback after 2 c-sections at the hunter!!! Guess who's moving now!!! Nah seriously we were looking into moving to newie after christmas! OK back to your baby, so have you made that doctor appointment yet? Since you beat me to it, I got to share this pregnancy with you. OR I could do what that saying is..if you cant beat em join em!
Castle omg really, wouldnt it be a lil dangerous trying for a vbac after two major surgeries? I seriously dont want another c-section but will if I have to.
Woo hoo Congratulations kat!!!!!Well done!!
JO, it is going to be our chrissy hols early cos we are moving, maybe not even a week long but still, it's a holiday. Is it a casino, resort thing? Huh I'm too excited to care really. I hope it is near you!!!
I have totally lost track of things - tell me who is preggy!!! I know theres Kat but did I get it right with Soul and JayJay? Anyone else?? I hope its catching I am trying!!!
Jo yes its a resort with Casino..its gorgeous..lovely indoor pool thing..and you can hire bikes and stuff.its nicce you will love it. We are 2.5 hours away.but anythings possible!!!
Halltribe the van sounds great. I cant believe you have gotten such rude comments. I think I would have burst into tears. I must admit though, when I do see large families I always count and wonder lol..
Soul..your time will come soon enough when you can join Kat...give little Phonenix a bit more baby time.
Mmmm...so ive heard its contagious..though..once one is pregnant in a forum..its contagious....so ANYONE???????????????????
Jo
Holidays sound great we just don't have many. Our family won a week away at a local resort. My hubby is off overseas in November and me and the kids are going to cash our holiday in then. No housework, pool, different walls to look at, etc but still closer enough to come home and feed the fish and get the mail!!! And continue the usual swimming lessons, sport, music, etc but as a homeschooler we will take holidays then while the rest of the kids are at school!!
The week away sounds great Halltribe.
We are going away for a week in 4 weeks time to Rottnest Island..its just gorgeous and we are all looking forward to it.
Jo
Your right JO, pheeny needs some more baby time yet, damn you having to be right!
halltribe r u going to have anymore sweetie?
Well its 12.56pm here and I am instill in pj's omg my man would kill me lmao, might go shower now pheen is asleep!
hey guys just seen the doctor im so mad hes done everthing he can do he says its probably not an infection which he thought at first he says its probably just a hormonal bleed so he refer me to a gyno .i said to him its been 32 days how long can i bleed
im so ****ed off whats wrong with me
OH sweetie I would be ****ed too not getting any answers, go to that gyno hon and get some bloody answers once and for all. I have been waiting to see how you have been, I can go have a late lunch now lmao, how the heck can he not know what is going on? Is it a heavy bleed? Hm that is aworry although I do know two other wmen who had the same things nd it did just eventaully stop, you still need to go see a gyno though my sweetie just to be safe ok.
Hi everyone :D
Congratulations on the PG Kat, and anyone else i've missed lol
I sure hope it is contagious, it's only my first month trying but would be great to not have to try for long !!!
I'm having a mini holiday this weekend, flying to Brissy to see my parents for Father's day and to help them pack; they are moving in with me next month for a while. I can't wait, the kids and i have really missed them since they moved up there.
Jesabell, i bleed none stop, and really heavy for a month and a half, they gave me tablets to stop the bleeding but they only worked for a day or too then it came back again. I ended up with aenemia and having to have blood transfusions and a D & C. I hope the gyno can help you :hug:
Hi lea, oh sweetie I hope that this new month is "All Yours" and you get a lil bean in there.
Thanks Soul :D
Not too sure on my chances though, DP has decided he wants to use condoms for the next couple of months bec he doesnt want me to have one before next July bec. he wants the extra 1,000 baby bonus !!!:wall: He's trying to tell me it's bec he wants to buy the baby lots of nice things, but personally i think he just wants to buy more things for him lol
I don't know if it's a guy thing or just him, he doesn't seem to get that i just want a baby, i don't care about the money !! How are you feeling today??
I am great sweetie, really good! Tell him that we should live in the "Now" not in the "Tommorrow" as for some people tomorow never comes.
Jes, , I am really concerned about your bleeding! Who did you get referred to, the Maitland guy or someone else? Are you having pain? Whoever the gyno is, can your GP get you in asap?
Soul , yes honey, you can have a VBA2C. The risk of rupture after two, is the SAME as after one c/sec...which is tiny anyway. If Tiggy pops her head in sometime this week, she can tell you more details... They will definitely let you have one at the John, unless there is some other reason why you shouldn't. Women drive there from Sydney and even from interstate for VBAC and for vaginal breech. They would want you to be well informed about all the risks, but ultimately it's up to you. After all, there are risks to having another caesar as well.
That's what i keep trying to tell him Soul, if (god forbid) we do have trouble conceiving, i don't want to have wasted a few months just bec of money, i would probably resent him for it, and i don't want to do that :(
castle omg you have no idea how excited you have made me just thinking its a possability! OMg you have nooooooooo idea, your an angel. Do you know anyone who jhas done it and how did it turn out? Did they have to wait a while bwteen c-section though, as in did she have to wait a certian amount of time before falling pregnant after a 2nd c-section?
Lea, its your body so you have a say too. Money dont last as long as the child tell him!
castle docs just rang they have me booked in tommorow at 11.45 with dr pullin at maitland .
thankgod i dont think i couldnt waited any longer it completly started to strees me out not knowing .
hopefully its just something simple and they can fix it soon im praying its not bad news.anyway i will let yous know when i get back from there tommorow
Gee this is a busy thread at the moment!!!
Soul - yes I am trying for another one. Like Lea I am in my first month of trying, charting, etc. I have had little trouble conceiving before but I am impatient this time after a m/c earlier in the year. Will keep you posted.
Jesabel - will send a prayer up for you tomorrow.
I'll tell him that tonight Soul :rolleyes:
Wow, hopefully we'll be belly buddies halltribe :D
Hope everyone's feeling good tonight...
That would be fun Lea, are you charting?
Gosh i go to uni for a few hours and youve added a couple more pages in here!!!
Jess..it doesnt sound good for you. Is it heavy bleeding? Id want more answers that a hormonal bleed!!
Jo
no guys its not heavy bleeding its not spotting ever its in between ikwim
dont worry im not walking out of that gynos appt till i get answers
to jess - you go girl!
jesabell I will be thinking about you and saying some prayers it is just something easy fixed. Have they takin bloods? Did they do an ultrasound? Those are the first two things I would think of doing if it were me and i was in the medical field. R u able to let us know how it goes tomorrow? I mis read what you had said about how long you had bleed for, wholy crap that is a long time. Lets hope tomorrow appointment will have you leave with nothing but good news and an easy solution, weill be stiking aorund all day off and on just to see how you go.
halltribe is this your first month at ttc? I will send you some ttc vibes. I was so sick of ttc with Phoenix which is my last child because it took us 10 months, and in the end I decided ot get those ovualtion strips oyu get off ebay that are really cheap and I kept using them till that line was darker than the control line and what do ya know......I feel pregnant that month each month I was misisng that eggie all because I saw the ewcm, but I was a person that got it for days and days and missed the eggie everytime, but those strips detected when I would ovualte within 24 -48 hours and walla, will be getting them again I think!
gorgeous_lea well hope he listens to you!
Thanks for that Soul - I'm a scrooge when its comes to spending money on myself but I think I will give it a go if this month doesn't work out!
scrooge here to on myself but hey they were cheap abd it was to get me my beautiful baby so it was a cheap amount of money well spent!!! Hey they are like $7.95 for 20 strips lmao
hi girls
i am new to the forums not long joined hope it's ok to join in
me &dp
ds 12
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ds 4
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