Hi and welcome baby hopes.
Jo
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Hi and welcome baby hopes.
Jo
baby hopes hi sweetie and welcome great to have more to talk too. I am sorry about your beautiful little angel baby, I too have two babes in heaven. R u going to have anymore kiddies sweetheart?
OMG what have you all been doing!!!!!!!
Welcome babyhopes, definately the more the merrier!!!
Jes Fingers crossed for you for tomorrow hun, i hope they figure it out!!!
I tell ya guys this was not planned and now i have no idea what is going on!!!
As you know i did a test yesterday afternoon as i was getting a lot of symptoms and test came back +++ within about 30sec. Anyway yes i did go to the docs to day to confirm , only to be told that it was ---!!!
So they sent me for a blood test and it came back threshold which they said is inconclusive! The nurse says that more than likely i am but i have to wait another 2 or 3 days and then go back for another blood test!!!
So now i feel like a nut case!!!
hi jo i have been reading all the posts in here and it's nice to chat with other mums of big family's
halltribe- I'm only writing down my temp's, when the thermometer arrives that is, apparently its been shipped to me today !!! Been thinking about getting the ovulation ones but might wait till next month.
sorry to hear of yr losses:hug:i know how heart breaking it is to go through we were so happy when we found out and i really thought this one was a girl too not sure if we are going to have more not really planning anything atm and my body has been acting crazy since my loss so it's kinda wait and see
Hey soul PMSL at the going to TTC with you next time round!! You can def share this pg with me if thats waht it is, and then i will share yours but def wont begoing with ya!!!!! LMAO
hi baby hopes welcome
soul soon as i get home i will lets u know how it went
i cant wait actually hopefully he can stop the bleeding im so over it i just wanna cry
sorry guys im a little bit emontional tonite
Thanks to everyone for their good wishes too, man thats so slack that i didnt say that in the first place !!!!! I just not thinking too clearly atm. Sorry guys
Welcome to our thread baby hopes; i know what you mean about talking to mum's with big families !! I'm ttc atm, if i have one, it will be 8 between my partner and I. enjoy your time here:D
Hey Jes no need to be sorry mate your body is in turmoil and i can only imagine how you must be feeling!!!! I will be praying for you to get the answers you need and for him to stop the bleeding..
Fingers crossed tomorrow is going to be a better day!!!
wow it looks like most of you have half boys and half girls with my last bub i had a u/s and had the 3d u/s twice and all 3 times was told 99% it's a girl about 7 pound well when bub was born didn't we get a shock a 9 pound boy lol
I too felt we lost a little girl hope, and if she is to come again she will.
Kat mg your kidding, what , is this kid giving you trouble already? Must be a girl. So when r u going to go back to docs? Could you do another test at home and see what this one comes up as? Don't feel like a nut love, our bodies like to keep us in suspense .
jesabell sweetie if crying makes you feel better than do it, you have every right to feel all the emotions you are. If I was close enough I would be your own personal punching bag, but hey, I'm a woos, so you would have to go easy on me!!!
Wonder how many more pregnancies we will see pop up soon.
Soul, if you and your not so little family can find your way over here, you are more than welcome you know........and i've even solved the cooking dilemma............I've decided that you and I can both put our feet up and natter natter natter, while all the kids.......blimey it must be 12/13 between us eh? They can all run wild and do their own thing - whatever, as long as they leave us alone!!! And last but not least......have decided that dh's can be in charge of all the cooking!!!
Well, what do ya reckon....good innit??!!!!..
HA ha Lea - does DH know about this?? Where do you live?
Welcome Baby Hopes to our wonderful and weird group!!
My dh is very frisky atm, I hope he'll perform when I need him to!!!!
Good morning everyone :D
Does my DP know about what halltribe? that im ttc, yes he does, talked it over for months actually. I live in south eastern melbourne. I'm hoping once AF has gone he will be frisky too lol
Mornin jay jay, funny that cause my name is Jay ! Oh yes puleaseeeeeeeeee I wil be in that trip!! My oldest two lurv to cook and they both do a great job, although my son is way better at it!
I have had no sleep all night, so a bit airy fairy today, pheeny decided he would be a windy baby last night and let me know all about it!
hi guys just got back hes put it down to a hormonal bleed so he given me the pill to stop the bleeding and i have to have a blood test .i had a pap smear while i was there and a swab to check for a infection .i have to go back in a couple of weeks
im so releived i didnt get much sleep as i was worried about today im just glad its not bad news
Soul, you can "SO WAY" have a VBA2C at the John Hunter.
They told me that after a c/sec, they like you to have 6-12 months before another pregnancy...to make sure the scar won't pull apart, basically. The scar actually ends up stronger than the other uterine tissue when it's well healed. It's like a seam in fabric. However, one of the doctors told me privately that as long as there were at least 3-4 months before another pg, he wouldn't worry too much.
I have know several people who've had a VBA2C at the John. Personally I've had 2 c/secs: my first, then 2 VBACs, then another c/sec. Both the c/secs were for completely different reasons. As you know when you've had both, there is no comparison in terms of pain and recovery.
They won't let you deliver in the birth centre, but I think Delivery Suite is OK too, and one of the DS rooms has a bath in it. You can request that room if it's free. They want you to have monitoring, but it can be intermittent--you lie down with the monitor every now & then for 20 minutes. That didn't bother me. My 2nd VBAC was actually an underwater birth, which was the BEST ever. The midwives are very supportive because the JHH does a lot of VBACs.
Jes (Sharon), how did it go today?? Thinking of you. HUGS. Hope you got some good answers.
Lea - I meant does your dh know that he's on cooking?!?
Glad to hear things went well at the docs Jes.
We are getting out the telescope tonight to see the Lunar esclipse my cp boy loves the stars.
Castle - my 2 best births were water births and were wonderful, they were also my 2 biggest kids!
My birth history is varied - 1 caesar, 3 inductions, 3 premies, 1 high blood pressure, 1 plancenta failure, 2 early waters breaking, 3 mc, my last I bleed heavily throughout whole pregancy. Thay say no 2 pregnancies are alike and I agree. Keeps us guessing!
good afternoon everyone,
So glad to hear everything went well today jesabell, i could tell in chat last night that you were really upset over it all, which i dont blame you btw. I hope the pill works quickly for you, how long do you have to take it for, were you ttc?
hey gorgeous lea
yeah last night i was a bit stresses but now its like a load of my mine i feel great .
i have to see him in a couple of weeks so i have to take the pill till i see him .
were decided when i get my body back ikim to try for a baby which im totally excited about
anyway guys thanks for caring
castle oh darlin thank you so much for that info that was so kind of you and you have no idea how much it meant to me that you wrote all that out. I am seriously thinking about going to the hunter hospital now. I am shocked how they allow one though, in a good way of course! Thrilled I amy be one of them that are allolwed!
jesabell, omg see something wonderful always comes out of somthing not so good, I am wrapped for , and I wish you a happy healthy nine months, oh hang on jumpin the gun here, well ok .I just cant wait to say that to you!!!
I'm so lost atm, but I am trying to catch up.
Did I tell you's that we have decided to ttc?
storm omg are ya really? whoo hoo hon !!!!!I want to now but not sure if my body could handle it and just had a c-section too, so bestbe waiting. I am so happy for you. I can give you an extra kid now if you like omg my son is getting a mouth on him!
Jes i am so glad that you got some answers today and that things will be under control very soon!
Well i did another HPT today and got a :bfp: still only light but there just the same. Have been feeling quite dizzy :lol: today but i have been flat out so you get that. Still have to go and have another Blood test on thursday to double check but at this stage it certainly looks like we are getting a new addition to our family!
We told the kids tonight and they were all shocked and saying oh Mum !!!!! Eldest DS says don't you know whats causing it yet???? :cryinglaugh::doh:
They are all taking it relatively well so that is a load off our minds.
I really like the sounds of having a VBA2C, that would really make me feel so much better about this pregnancy. I am hoping because my hospital was so keen for me to go VBAC with all my girls that as long as nothing goes wrong they will look just a s kindly to me having a VBA2C!!!
Fingers crossed but i have a few other things to worry about first, like getting a full blown :bfp: at my next blood test! Then of course there is the whole edd, i know when my last period was but will play dumb just to get a early scan so that i know everything is where it should be IYKWIM! I read somewhere last night that after a CS there is a chance of an ectopic pg as it is possible that they could have kinked a few tubes and stuff! I truly hope this is not the case but will be looking for an early scan just the same!
Did anybody else watch the lunar eclipse???? Halltribe did your DS love it??? My kids were fascinated
WOW how awesome Storm good luck hope you get a :bfp: soon!!!
My DH has decided that when he gets this extension done we are going to have single beds with a :wall: between us as surely that will stop me from falling PG :cryinglaugh::cryinglaugh::cryinglaugh:
I know what you mean soul i had no intensions of having another bub this soon for the same reasons!!! The daughter of a girlfriend of mine has a 16mth gap with her first being a CS and then followed witha natural so fingers crossed
Kat that is great that it came up a BFP for you hon!!!! That sounds very promising to me. And I sure hope you get a vba2c too. By the way pmsl I am just like you, I too would act dumb just t get an early scan!Hmm so you had a c-section last right? And that was only 8 months ago right? Maybe its not all out for me yet!!! Oh and your last two births were both c-sections right? Shoulkd I be taking DH to bed early tonight???
Lmao big time soul !!!!!
As for the scan i figure why pay for it if i can get it for free!!!! The government don't help us in any other way so stuff it!!!!!
Yep i only had DS 8 months ago today actually!! But he was only 7 months if you go to my last period date !!!
He was a c-sec, and my first born was a c-sec so i had 4 naturals in between and would definately prefer another natural as long as everything goes well.
And why not, i would be racing him in htere anyway even if its only to practice LOL!
Would you believe (TMI warnig) we actually only did it once this cycle anyway!! DH always liked to stay away from when he thought i would be ovulating just in case !!!! I guess we did it that once and it was the right time for conceiving!!!! PMSL
Go for it Soul -xx-........
Woohoo for another bfp Kat, feeling dizzy is a good sign. ROFl at your son too, that is soooo typical of teenagers.
Kat, your Mitchie is only 3 days younger than Angel!! DAH I only just worked that out!
Happy 8 months Mitchie!
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