:O :O :O is all I can say Tanya. That is absolutely disgusting!
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:O :O :O is all I can say Tanya. That is absolutely disgusting!
OMG that is disgusting. What a horrible person!!
I still don't understand though why having lots of kids is bad?? Not like you're asking anyone else to take care of them!! Nobody else's business anyway. I would have 10 kids if I was really rich!! lol. Congrats on your pregnancy Tanya :)
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Your anger is perfectly justified, Tanya. I hope you don't stay too upset about it for long - it is plain obvious that she's "not very classy" as you so delicately put it. My word, that is absolutely appalling.
;) You're a much classier woman than she is, Tan. Just ignore her and make sure your next update is "We've done so well with the 4 we have, we've decided to bestow the gift of number 5 on the world!"
poo to her tanya!
It is upto you and your partner how many munchkins you have!
don't listen to her!
Tanya, I wouldn't be taking that lightheartedly either.It's a horrible thing to say, joke or not!especially for the world to see.Golly, some people!
what a rude cow. who needs "friends" like that?
How bloddy rude do some want to be!!!
I would speak to her about it or block her as a friend.
WEhat you do in your house is your business and if you have 12 kids its your choice no one elses.
Make that 2!!!:
There no way id be talking to her again.... regardless of her reasons.. FRIENDS would NOT say or even think anything like that! Its just disgusting!
Not to mention petty :rolleyes:
thats such a rude comment for her to make
That honestly is beyond rude some ppl should be more sensitive and keep nasty thoughts to them selves this year me and hubbie will also be TTC 5. that was such a rude thing to say!!!!!!! Big hugs!!!!
or you could write "I would have swollowed but my throat was sore, and my butt hole so full it was coming out my nose"
Stupid rude cow!
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Gosh....ive had a few nasty comments myself, but nothing like that. I agree, she is sooooo jealous.
More recently ive had:
"Im pregnant"
reply: "God, go the mini bus" !!!!!!!!!!-(no congrats or anything....)
or
"We're pregnant"
reply:"Well, you two really need to find a new hobby"............
Both hurtful comments, both comments ive ignored, but now and then they creep back into my mind.
ETA: i love the swallow that comment......that is gold......
Hugs hun...
Tanya... wow what a total B*tch...... who is this person and where is she because she deserves a total smack down!!!!......... I was so excited to read that you are pregnant and that I am able to share the journey with you again :D .... you are a truely amazing woman and a inspiring mother xxxxx
I am angry and venting.. Sorry.. BUT I am so sick of people carrying on about children as if they are the worst thing.. I JUST LOST TWINS.. I would love to have my babies here.. and when I was pg with twins I heard "Oh no.. is it in the family?" and when I said we had twins in the family she said "Oh so you were doomed" DOOMED!! WTF, BLESSED more like it.. I felt lucky to have 2 bubs when some women have none.. Now I am 1 of the women who have none.. So to all those b****s who don't want kids.. give yours to me!!!! My best friend was 1 of 6 live babies (mum had 12 pregnancies) and when My best friend used to come and tell us "Mum is having another baby" she reckons I was the only one who would get excited.. Her mum used to get comments like "Don't you have a TV" etc etc... Anyway I think anyone who has a live baby is lucky.. the more they have the luckier they are..xx
Hi girls - I know exactly the sort of comments you get when you have a large family - I think number 5 is the number that tips that balance. When I have miscarried I have had family congratulate me. There are some days when I am feeling drained that to go out with my kids and recieve another negative comment would send me over the edge almost. Nobdy likes to be a freak and I do feel like a freak show when I am out with my amazing, wonderful children and it sucks!!! I love my kids and lovebeing a mum to all 7 of them but I am not supermum and I do have feelings and it does hurt. Even when I am in a new group of people it is like I am pre judged to have it all together and that I think I am better than anyone and no-one will make a move to befriend me, but again I am still a person like everybody else who needs a friend or a smile. I am not perfect and struggle like any other mum whether they have 2 or 10 kids. It is funny though when I do get into a group every women there wants to justify themselves to me why they only have 1,2,3,4,...children! I don't care it is their life and mine is mine so please give us large families a break.
I totaly agree with the last two comments. People can be soooooooooooo rude and alot of people don't think before they say something. When I go out with my 5 children and the last two where twins I get you poor thing how do you cope. It's quite easy thank you.
Cathie