I have had MG here a few times now. The kids get all the toys out of the toybox and they are all over the house and backyard. Now - I have NO problem with this, I actually like that they play with the stuff but when it comes time to leave everyone just gets up and leaves. No one puts anything away or even offers to. Whenever i'm at others places I ALWAYS make Miss J help put away some toys and offer to help with dishes or whatever. I was always taught that was good manners.
It doesn't just happen here either, it happens at others houses too.

Is it just me who does this? Am I weird for doing this?? It kinda annoys me that I end up having to clean up everything at the end.