thread: meeting other local mums - is this weird / stalkerish?

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  1. #1
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    Oct 2008
    Newport, VIC
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    meeting other local mums - is this weird / stalkerish?

    Hello all,

    We've moved to our new suburb around 6 months ago and have settled in nicely. All of my friends and their kids from mothers group now live a 25 minute drive away and while we catch up reguarly, I'd like to have friends around the corner like I used to - especially to go walking. Whilst I expect to start meeting people next year when DS1 goes to 3 year old kinder, we are still lacking on the local friends front.

    I live in a massive baby area and I see heaps of mothers with their prams walking around. I know there are heaps in my nearby streets as I see all the prams on the front porches.

    I was thinking of doing up a flyer letting people know that I'm starting a walking group and asking people to come along. I was going to put it in the letterboxes of the 3-4 streets around my house. I thought going for a walk was a bit more accessible for people than having something at my house. People might be happy to turn up and walk with strangers, but not go to their house (at least initially).

    What do you think is a good time? I was going to go for afternoon around 3.30 pm? That suits me as my youngest is generally awake by then.

    or is the whole idea weird and I should just can it? Would you go to something like this?

    Fiona

  2. #2
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    Apr 2009
    Epping, VIC
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    I would absolutely join you!
    I love meeting new people.
    The problem with walking with prams- its usually single file (footpath space etc)
    Doesn't allow for much new bonding time....

  3. #3
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    Sep 2011
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    I think it's a great idea! To eliminate the problem of walking with prams, maybe it could be walk to a park or something? But yes, brilliant idea!

  4. #4
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    Dec 2007
    Hork-Bajir Valley
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    why not? what do you have to loose?
    maybe sus out if there isn't already one going on??

    and I don't know (not having kids myself) but wouldn't 330pm maybe clash with picking kids up from school?

    but seriously go for it!!

  5. #5
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    Oct 2007
    Middle Victoria
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    Great idea!

  6. #6
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    Oct 2008
    Newport, VIC
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    Thanks all. A walk down to a park a bit further away is a great idea. That way any toddlers (like mine!) can have a run around and go from there.

    I'm not sure this is really for people with school aged kids? More those with younger than school age. Anyway, if 3.30 turns out to be a crap time I can change it.

    I'm sure I'll need help drafting the note so I'll be back!

  7. #7
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    Oct 2008
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    Going to the local park would be a great idea

    330 would clash with the school pick up but if said mums were to take their schoolies and run them around for a while that may work well, otherwise probably 9-930 am is better for mums with schoolies

    Good on you for thinking about something like this

  8. #8
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    Aug 2008
    Ouiinslano
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    I would totally go.

  9. #9
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    Mar 2009
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    How did you go??? x

  10. #10
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    Jun 2005
    USA
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    I think it's a great idea... however, have you visited your local MCHN or library and checked notice boards there? I found lots of waling groups and the like already set up when moved to a new area.

  11. #11
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    Mar 2006
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    Fab idea! I would join you too. How'd you get on?

  12. #12
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    Oct 2008
    Newport, VIC
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    Lol! I've done nothing! Life is very busy.

    I'll do it next week when a major work project finishes up.


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