One of my sisters is in hospital at the moment. Long story short, she had an emergency hysterectomy 2 days ago. She's 27.

If it wasn't a difficult situation, I'd be up in a flash. However, she doesn't want to see me. Well, I haven't asked her about this particular situation, but given the violence with which she's made it known in the past, I'm pretty sure she won't want to see me, and I don't want to antagonise her. But I want to do something, acknowledge it in some way. Send flowers, or a hamper? What do you send to an estranged sister that almost died through malpractice?!