This is something dh and I have done regularly and we are going through some changes at the moment and I think I will put some thought into it again. It's a wonderful thing to do and it gives clarity and allows you to stay congruent with the life decisions that you are making. So set aside some time and write a list of your top 10 values in order. It may not be as easy as you think Some things are really hard like everyone may think family comes first for them but then if you think about health that is probably even more important. To figure it all out you need to ask yourself things like money and health, well there's no point having loads of money and not very good heath but then money is really important to maintain or fix bad health... See what I mean! You don't need to share what your values are on this thread if you'd like to keep them private, I was just really throwing the idea out there to others who may be interested