Hi Lee - i know it can seem tough sometimes to stay positive after so many transfers but it is important to remember that everyone's body is different and for some it may happen on the first time and others maybe the tenth. I have had 3 stim transfers and 5 FETS all resulting in a BFN but i still believe that i will fall pregnant some day.In fact, I am convinced that my FET this month will be the one! Whenever i feel down, i remind myself about all my friends who have had children naturally and how for some of them it happened within a couple of months and for others it took up to 12 months. I liken 1 ebryo tranfer to 1 month of trying for a woman who does not have fertility issues - kind of makes sense when you look at it like that!!!