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thread: For God's sake, all I want is a baby!

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  1. #1
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    For God's sake, all I want is a baby!

    Small rant, but I am sick to death of seeing some women and men who a less than capable of bringing up their own children in their hazed, pathetic drug induced state! If things are just meant to be then why the hell aren't a a mother?

    Why do these horrible, abusive people have the right to be a parent and my DP and I do not?

    I've had a gutful! (not quite a gutful anyway, a baby would do that just fine )

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    Hope you get your baby very very soon!

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    Praying you get your BFP soon!!!!

    Maybe God is just taking extra time to make the most perfect, amazing and gorgeous little person to give to you guys! FX!
    xx

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    Thanks ladies! I'm just starting to feel like there is this exclusive club that you can't join until you are a mum If I get told once more that I will 'understand when I have kids' I will explode!

    Thanks for listening

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    Awww huge hugs kimmi. I pray from the bottom of my heart you get your baby soon. I like what mrsbexie said. When you finally get your baby I'm sure he or she will be extra super perfect xx

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    Sorry, that came out wrong. My last comment stemmed from someone recently telling me that I can never appreciate my mother until I have had children. My defense was that NO-ONE could appreciate my mother more than I do! She is my best friend and I love her just about more than anything.....

    Am I waffling?

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    I don't think there's a reason for these things unfortunately. I hope you have a gutful of baby real soon and congratulations on your upcoming wedding!

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    nah, not waffling. i don't know why people say **** like that. hope you get your bubba soon.

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    Woo Hoo..... finally, some reality! thanks girls!

    And thanks mad, the wedding is less then 4 months away and would you believe I have done nothing besides book a venue??? Is that a bad thing?
    Lol... I had nothing left to do at 6 months! And we were only engaged 10mths before the wedding... So I organized it all in 4mths... Prob is booking/getting stuff!! Have you organized dresses n stuff yet? Hairdressers book up pretty quickly, so do cars etc.
    Pm me and I'm happy to see if I can help! I love wedding stuff... And I did everything myself (invites, centerpieces etc... All made by me!) and did it all from Wagga when I got married in act.

    And soon your belly will be full of arms and legs!!!! Xx

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    MrsBexie, is it bad if I haven't looked at one single dress and my wedding is 3months, 3weeks and 2 days away? hahahahahahahahahahaha. (I'm going to regret this!)

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    BTW, MrsBexie, you're a show off xx

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    Kimmi there really is no explanation. It is not fair, it sucks b@lls (can I say that? oops). Hoping you are distracted momentarily by planning your wedding and by christmas time you are rubbing a big kicking belly.

    xoxo
    M

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    Kimmi, I got my dress about six weeks before my wedding. Abbey bridal in the CBD has heaps of nice dresses off the rack. I am sure you will find something beautiful.

    If Murphy's Law kicks in then you will be knocked up and spewing your guts out all though the most special day of your life.

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    HI Kimmi

    I know that feeling - a baby belly is so much nicer....I tried for 3 years...we convieved after I admitted defeat! Go figure!

    As for weedings! weeding LOL! typo - As for weddings, we were engaged for 6 years (yeah...we don't seem to rush into anything do we!)...when we finally got around to organising a wedding - it was all done by hubby in the minimum 30 days! Albeit, a small and simple wedding. It was perfect for us. And my dress - an old favourite (i didn't wear white).

    I agree with Artechim - murphy's law!

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    Kimmi, I got my dress about six weeks before my wedding. Abbey bridal in the CBD has heaps of nice dresses off the rack. I am sure you will find something beautiful.
    I got my dress from there too!

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    Kimmy... I am a control freak so no way was I letting Someone else do it! Hahaha they wouldn't do it right!!

    Do you know generally what style you want? Is it a big wedding or just a bit smaller and more relaxed?

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    Lots of hun.

    By any chance were you watching Dr. Phil? I had to turn it off, I couldn't stop bawling thinking about how unfair it is that those two girls had 3 kids between them and what those kids were living through.

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    No I didn't... Do you know the title of the episode?

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