Melissa- how exciting! Good for you hun- lucky last comes through! ( did Dh let you poas or did you cheat?)

N2L- i know this is a bit rich coming from me, who's written off her cycle already- but you are only 11 dpo!! There is still time for a bfp,although I know how hard it is to be in limbo land. If you are cramping with no AF then you are still in with a chance!!! Hanging in here is the best idea, theres no need to explain yourself, I know the feeling. I really like your plan ( hoping you don't need it) but i will be doing the same if I get a bfn- going to be hard to be strict over xmas though Hugs to you xx

AFM- nothing of course, 2dp5dt! Trying to pre-occupy myself!

Hi everyone else!