Advice - what to ask the FS next time

[Buggirl]

I have had repeated ET failure (6 in all) and am getting desperate - what should I be asking my FS?

thanks
Buggirl

[farmgirl77]

Hi Buggirl,
for your journey so far. I guess my answer this question is twofold 1. What in your heart do you want to ask - or what is your gut saying? 2. what additional tests could be done that have not already been done?

The following link might help you with question 2. https://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums...scarriage.html, https://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums...age.html...and this thread may also be useful https://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums...y-testing.html

If you read the first thread, you will basically see my story. We only got our BFP because I asked for more tests for implantation failure that are only done routinly after 8 failed transfers - I asked after 4 because my 'gut' was saying that we should have at least had a BFP by that stage.

If you have had the above tests (and sorry if you have and I have not picked up on it), then I would be asking about different protocols (which I cant really help you with), and even getting a second opinion from a different FS and even different clinic - anything to get more info and scope out the options.

Have you asked your FS why he/she thinks the transfers have not worked to date? I hate stats but they are taken over the population and may not reflect the individual case - so maybe your BFP is coming!

I wish that I could be more help - but I hope that this gives you a good starting point. Good luck.
FG