thread: support needed badly

  1. #1
    Registered User

    Jul 2011
    victoria
    79

    support needed badly

    i am new to this site and not very good at comps so i dont understand what the password is i am supposed to be typing to enter a chat room,i am TTC and have been for 3 years everyone around me getting pregnant i know i have not tried much but at the same time i am not sure how much more i can handle with no support i am struggling on a daily basis now everynight i need to cry and could do with someone to talk to ..please.....

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Aug 2010
    Gold Coast
    965

    Welcome to BB hun, and massive There are alot of women here in the same position unfortunately. I was one of them, but i am now pregnant with my second child. Sending you lots of love xxxxxxxxxx

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Jul 2011
    victoria
    79

    thanks heaps,i know there are heaps of others out there and a friend suggested this site but it wont let me put a username in to start chatting to anyone...someone said something about i dont have enough posts to talk?

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Jul 2006
    Brisbane
    3,205

    Hey hun... it's hard when everywhere you look there are pregnant ladies and babies! With regards to chatting, yes you need to have... I think it's 50?? .... posts.

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Jul 2011
    victoria
    79

    thanks guys at least i knwo to build it up then i might get somewhere

  6. #6

    Jul 2009
    Out North, Vic
    8,538

    welcome bellabee84, i am sure you will find lots of love and support from all the BB ladies.
    Once you have enough posts take a look around at the TTC sections, get to know people in the general chatter section and feel free to ask as many questions as you need.
    Wishing you all the luck in the world with your TTC journey, hopefully now you have a bit of an idea whats happening (re: PCOS) things might start moving in the right direction.

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Apr 2009
    Sydney
    2,350

    bellabee84

    Sorry to hear your struggles with TTC. Everyone on here is so supportive and lovely and each one of us has our own story to tell. Looking forward to seeing you around the boards. Hope you get your BFP soon

    xx


    Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk so please forgive my spelling mistakes!!

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Dec 2006
    In my own private paradise
    15,272

    welcome BellaBee

    TTC can be a very trying time for some of us, especially if you are facing battles with long term ttc (LTTTC) and things like PCOS in the mix. have a look around the site, maybe jump into the general chatter threads for those TTC for 12 months plus, or even have a read of the LTTTC threads and when you're ready, introduce yourself in there. Unfortunately, there are many of us who have been where you are, many who are still there - so you will receive a lot of support

    if you are going in to the chat room, it will allow you to type once you've got enough posts. those in the chat room are always friendly but may not necessarily be the ones with the most understanding of your situation at the moment - so definitely put yourself out there on the main forum and see what comes about.

  9. #9
    2013 BellyBelly RAK Recipient.

    Apr 2009
    3,750

    Welcome to BB. I hope you find the support you need and even better you find out your expecting a baby of your own soon. Its such a lonely road when you can't fall pregnant in the time frame you expect and you can't see the end of your story. There is a number of long term ttc threads which might be a good start.

    Here is the link to the ttc longer then 12months.
    https://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums...2/index12.html

  10. #10
    Senior Moderator

    Nov 2004
    Chickens.
    4,989

    Hi Bellabee and welcome. All the best for your TTC journey.

  11. #11
    Registered User

    Jul 2006
    Melbourne
    4,895

    Welcome to BB bellabee84 - I'm so sorry you have been having a crappy time ttc - I am another who has struggled. Come and join us in the LTTTC 12+ months, plenty of support there for you

  12. #12
    Registered User

    Jan 2010
    712

    welcome Bellabee
    I have been in the very same position as u. Its a good idea to start chatting in the TTC forums. Theres alot of ladies going through the same or similar things u will be going through. I know its very very hard seeing friends, family and even complete strangers down the street pregnant and wishing it was u cos it took my hubby and I 5 years to conceive our little man. Its good to get support on here from others in the same boat. Get posting and see how u go
    OH and goodluck TTC and LOADS of get preggo vibes coming ur way

  13. #13
    Registered User
    Add ~Lashes~ on Facebook

    Aug 2010
    south eastern melbourne
    2,533

    Hi and welcome!
    i wish you luck on your journey and i know you will find some great support here!

  14. #14
    Registered User

    Feb 2011
    Melbourne
    207

    You've come to the right place, all the support & advise you need is here. After three years we are finally having a baby 11 weeks n 4 days There were many times we didn't think we would get here, on our last cycle which was literally that we were blessed. I have spent many nights of tears & heartbreak. The support I've gotten from everyone here has been amazing. So welcome. Be kind to yourself & all the best for your IVF journey x

  15. #15

    Jul 2009
    Out North, Vic
    8,538

    just seeing if anyone else had some helpful advice. ??


    Sent from my iPhone, more than likely while I should be doing something else!

  16. #16

    Jul 2009
    Out North, Vic
    8,538

    How are you going, any news on Dr's or anything like that?

  17. #17
    Registered User

    Jul 2011
    victoria
    79

    the doc ahs decided to put me on chlomid instead of surgery so YET AGAIN we need to wait i am sooooooooo over this its keeping me up at night i want to cry every day and my friends dont understand i am starting to hate life.....if you cant have kids whats the point to it all ????