The best way to cope with other people's pregnancies/babies?

[Possums]

Trying to.... I am so sorry it's so tough for you also...sending you a big hug, i do feel for you.

I have good and bad days too.

Today is a bad day...a bit of a 'falling apart on the inside' day. My pregnant friend just had another scan and i was talking to her about it, and of course felt the usual mix of joy for her, and pain for me. It knocked me more than I expected. It just reminded me of our scans, the heartbeats...and then the devastating one with no heartbeat.
I feel like crying, but am at work and have to hold it together.

We are seeing them tomorrow. Hopefully i'll be feeling better.

[Trying To]

big for you!!!!

Possums I know excalty what you mean, I find it helps when im at work and im ready to fall apart is to just get stuck into my work!

But I hope it goes well for you tomorrow