Hi Dusty

As much as i have NOT been “preventing for 16 month” now, i would say that we have started to make a real effort for the past 5 month, since i have got my AF back after it disappearing for 60+ days ... it kind of was a wakeup call back then with the high FSH level BT ... we started to realize that we might not be in the normal 6-12 month UTD category ...

The funny thing is that my FS has not mentioned any medication i can or should take nor any concerns in regards to abnormal ovarian function ?
Seems odd now after reading your post...

I will defiantly Google that egg donor site, as you mentioned not in regards to looking at a donor egg but to learn more about the whole thing in general..

I had a good talk with DH and he agrees that we should at least give 2 IVF rounds ago if nothing has happened in a few month with the help of a Chinese herbalist, i am due to visit my mum overseas in May so i think we will keep “trying normally” with herbs till then and after i come back get further opinions... as i agree with you it does not serve me to stick my head in the sand – pretending nothing is wrong...

Its a shame that there are no other people in here which seem to be in a similar situation...

i would like to thank you again for your time

Ps: what is AC and DHEA ?