Hi all,
I have been thinking about this all week and wondered whether other clinics do this differently. DH and I did numerous amounts of cycles before falling pg with DD, a few years down the track we are embarking on FET's. My fert IVF specialist has no real idea who I am as I have been transfered onto his books from a IVF specialist that no longer does it anymore. He has never met DH just has his name on a computer screen. It worries me that at my appointment I went alone and it was all set for a FET at the transfers I sometimes go alone due to time restaints. What worries me for other couples is
1. What if you had seperated and did this and had a FET done fell pregnant with out the other spouse aware of what you are doing?
2. What if someone off the street walks in and say I'm Rebecca ........ and I need an appointment with the Fert specialist and have a transfer done ( abit far stretched they obviously would have to know details about me)but the doctors have no idea who I am.
Maybe it is just my paraniod feelings coming though!

Bec