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N2L said it all perfectly.... :( :grouphug:
I want to run over there and give you an even bigger hug and cry with you..... I cannot say how sorry I am for you xxx
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N2L said it all perfectly.... :( :grouphug:
I want to run over there and give you an even bigger hug and cry with you..... I cannot say how sorry I am for you xxx
n2l - there's no harm in asking ;)
typical of the body to do things weirdly for you though, isn't it.... :wall:
sorry AF has gone AWOL andie xxx
Emma yay for finally ovulating and getting to do transfer on Friday.
Vic I will be thinking of you tomorrow and hope everything goes well and you recover quickly but let yourself take whatever time you need to be able to move forward. We are all here for you xo
Emma, yay! GL with your transfer!
N2L, I had heard that a biopsy can help with implantation too, so I think it's worth asking about. GL with your Dr tomorrow.
Vic, there's really no words that will make tomorrow better. Be kind to yourself and give yourself time to heal. As for TTC, why not ask your Dr. If they say to wait, ask why. If they're not direct, really push them (assuming you don't want to wait). A lot of the time they want you to wait just so you have a LMP for any subsequent pg. I decided their convenience wasn't a good enough reason for us to wait, so we started TTC in the d&c cycle. However, sometimes there is a more pressing medical reason for waiting, so it is always worth asking and especially asking "why".
Afm, my temp went up today, so I might have O'd. Waiting for those 3 days of high temps to confirm though. How ridiculous that I didn't want to O early and N2L didn't want to O late and our bodies both did exactly the opposite! Stupid ovaries.
Ugh, I've just finished catching up on 8 hours of work that was meant to be done last week and now have the worst headache... :shakehead:
Hi ladies!
Just got back from a weekend away in Sydney.
Vic so sorry to read about your loss! I can't even imagine how you feel, all the best for tomorrow. Sending as many hugs as you need!
Emma good luck with your transfer later this week!
I hope af arrives soon for those of you waiting....& "O" happens soon enough for those who are waiting for it!
Hi anyone I have missed I hope your weekend has been good!
***sneaking in***
Thinking of you today Vic. Lots of hugs babe.
***sneaking out again***
Thinking of you this morning Vic, many hugs hunni and I'm sending you strength and lots of love :hug:
myturn, hope you're feeling a bit better x
Emma, GL for your FET on Friday :crossfingers:
Hi to everyone else :hello:, sending many sticky vibes and baby dust your way :)
Thinking of you today Vic xxx
My thought are with you today Vic xo
Hi all,
Seratec opk positive this morning. EWCM and sharp pains on my right hand side last night. So I guess I am about to ovulate.
Too late for biopsy though. I have rescheduled for next Monday.
An interesting thing I thought I'd share - I have been using Lullaby Conceptions OPKs for 10 days (including this morning). Still no positive. That's using the same FMU as I got the positives from the seratec. Not that reliable IMO.
The HPTs are still okay I think (at least they have worked for me with testing out the trigger).
N2L, that's interesting that you're getting +opk with FMU. Generally, it's advised to not use FMU because we only start to metabolise the LH into our urine after we wake. I always get my +opk quite late in the day. Are you at least getting a dark line on the LC ones, even if it's not as dark as the control?
Vic, I hope today passes as quickly as possible, with no complications. :comfort:
Juniper, I always tested at around 2pm until my last transfer in May when my FS and nurses said the latest thinking was to test with FMU. So now I do! I did do one yesterday too (the first seratec which was an almost positive).
Like I said, I had pain and ewcm last night. Just checked again. EWCM seems to be gone.
eta - the second line on the cheapie tests is still pretty faint.
Monday 23rd July 2012
Waiting for EPU/O/IUI/FET or just something to happen! :wiggle:
Me4ever – CD5
Mrs Mac - CD6
Kerbear - CD13
Emma - CD18 FET
Juniper - CD19 (just tracking O for now)
N2L – CD22
Super_lost_mumma_of_one – CD41?
Waiting for Transfer :dance:
Larry - CD17 ET: 25/7/12
Hanging out in the TWW :crossfingers: (Stalk them here....https://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums/threads/182783-LTTTC-Two-Week-Wait-2012-5 ) :goodluck:
myturn – CD23 4dp 1 x 2 day embryo BT: 2/8/12
PlanetSasha – CD35 BT: 27/7/12
Andie – CD37
Got Their :bfp: in July :leap:
ReeRee 2/7/12
Jane 2/7/12
Rach82 13/7/12
Thank you girls for all your lovely words. It made me cry reading them. The day has been one from hell. Not only dealing with them takinb my baby, but I have bled and had huge clots, when I shouldnt have been bleeding at all. I ended back in emergency dept for the afternoon, writhing in pain. My ob and staff were amazing. I am currently tucked up at home on the sofa, fire roaring, with dh waiting on me. He has been amazing. We are struggling together and its hard seeing him in pain as men dont like to talk about stuff, but he has been open with me.
I miss our baby. I hate that I am no longer pg and that feb will come and go with no arrival. I hate that we now live in fear. Fear that we wont get pg again with our 2 frosties and fear if we do how we will cope. I hate that life has lost its sparkle and is no longer fun.
I know that there are so many people worse off than me, and I keep reminding myself we are both healthy and have each other, life could be a whole lot worse.
Thanks for listening girls, I will be forever grateful xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Vic - sitting here with tears in my eyes - can't imagine your pain - i hope with all my might that in time you find that sparkle in life again. But for now, vent, scream, cry, do whatever you need and know we are all here to support you however we can. :grouphug:
Vic hugs xx
im sorry you're having to go through this, vic. i hope tomorrow is a bit better for you. :comfort:
Vic what an awful day you have had, you have every right to feel everything you wrote. Losing a baby is the hardest thing, I will never say you forget it but in time it gets easier to accept. My DH always says to me that their was a reason it didn't continue and I always think of that on days when I am not coping and angry with it, although we will never know why and that still makes me angry.
If you need to talk, cry or vent about it make sure you do cause it needs to come out to help you if that's what you need to do to work through it and we are all always here for you.
I hope in time your pain eases and you can enjoy trying again with as little fear possible. I hope all of that came out right.
Sending you a huge hug and thinking if you xo
Oh Vic!!! :(
:hug: I wish there was more we could do for you xxx
Vic, I'm sorry to hear you ended up back at the hospital later for the bleeding and pain. I didn't have clots, but I certainly did have bleeding after my d&c (for 18 days), so I'm surprised you were told you shouldn't have any. I also found that, while it was light to medium at first, almost exactly a week after the d&c I was suddenly bleeding heavily and the same again another week later. (My lap was on a Monday afternoon and both lots of heavy bleeding were Sunday nights.) I only mention it because it surprised the heck out of me. But everything else you describe, I could have written. All of those thoughts and feelings are very normal for the situation (I hope, otherwise we're both weird ;)).
I'm glad to hear your hubby is looking after you. I'm even more glad to hear that he is being open with you. Mine still doesn't talk about what happened, even after 6 months. We have also lost his dad since then, and he doesn't talk about that either, so I think he thinks he has to bottle everything up and "be strong". I wish he wouldn't because it makes him so angry. Talking is good.
Vic- huge :hug:
I can't imagine what you are going through- but I hope you are getting heaps of support through your DH and BB.
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Vic- so sorry to hear the bad news. I hope you are letting it all out. Sending you lots of squishy hugs. XOXO.
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Im not sure if I would qualify to be in here but I thought Id pop in and see because I dont entirely feel like I belong in the usual TTC threads anymore.
We've been trying for 2.5 years to have another baby. In that time Ive had 4 miscarriages (7 overall), the last of which was in May, which was very physically and emotionally traumatic. Its taken me awhile to decide whether to continue on or be happy with what we have; and to brave the uncertainty of miscarriage again, but we've decided to keep trying for a little longer now my cycle seems to be back. Unfortunately the fertility specialist up here have been absolutely no help (was previously diagnosed with antiphospholipid syndrome in Sydney) so we're going solo and hoping for the best. I used to be a member of this thread way back when we were TTC our first baby, and finally graduated after 2 years.
Im feeling a little lost these days. All my friends that have been TTC have gone on to either be currently pregnant or have had babies (sometimes 2 separate babies!) while Im still struggling along.
Sorry you have had so much trouble freya. You are welcome of course!
Let me know if / when you'd like to go on the list.
Welcome Freya!
Many of the girls in this thread are doing some sort of assisted conception, but not all. Even those who are have months in between treatments when they are trying naturally. You definitely qualify.
Hope your stay is short (for all the right reasons!)
Thanks guys. Im apparently supposed to be doing clexane injections but I cant get a Dr up here to do anything for me in regards to that. My problem appears to be carrying babies rather than getting pregnant so short of a uterus transplant Im not sure ART could offer us anything, but at this stage Id do anything that could help.
Myturn - Im happy to go on the list (Im a bit slack at counting my cycles so it would be handy lol); waiting for ovulation, CD 8 today.
Tuesday 24th July 2012
Waiting for EPU/O/IUI/FET or just something to happen! :wiggle:
Me4ever – CD5
Mrs Mac - CD6
Freya - CD8
Kerbear - CD14
Emma - CD19 FET
Juniper - CD20 (just tracking O for now)
Super_lost_mumma_of_one – CD42?
Waiting for Transfer :dance:
Larry - CD18 ET: 25/7/12
Hanging out in the TWW :crossfingers: (Stalk them here....https://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums/threads/182783-LTTTC-Two-Week-Wait-2012-5 ) :goodluck:
N2L – CD23
myturn – CD24 5dp 1 x 2 day embryo BT: 2/8/12
PlanetSasha – CD36 BT: 27/7/12
Andie – CD38
Got Their :bfp: in July :leap:
ReeRee 2/7/12
Jane 2/7/12
Rach82 13/7/12
Are you rural somewhere??? is there ANY way you could travel somewhere to get another opinion??? I know one of the girls had to catch a plane to adelaide for each of her transfers... which was difficult, but it's possible...? Has some of her consutlations over the phone... which helps....???
Im in Townsville, so not rural per say. We only have a small group of OBGYNs with any specialist knowledge; Ive seen 2 of them and both have pretty much said they cant help me. I had testing done in 2010 through Dr Sacks in Sydney who diagnosed me with antiphos but then we moved and Ive been battling to find someone with knowledge of miscarriage management. Im kind of a weird case, out of 10 pregnancies - 7 were miscarriages, 3 successfuls pregnancies one of which I ended up with an irritable uterus and pre eclampsia and one that was a nightmare of premature labour, bedrest, medications and stress. Ive had one 'normal' pregnancy, that pretty much left the specialists scratching their heads as to how I managed it. I keep thinking there has to be a reason why Im suddenly worse off than when we started trying for a family over 8 years ago. Im getting desperate enough to think about flying to Brisbane to see someone if we dont get moved on to somewhere else next year.
wow! what a journey you have had... hopefully you can figure something out that will work... really disappointing that the local specialist were not helpful... maybe they will work in consultation with someone from brisbane if you can get in???
Wednesday 25th July 2012
Waiting for EPU/O/IUI/FET or just something to happen! :wiggle:
Me4ever – CD6
Mrs Mac - CD7
Freya - CD9
Kerbear - CD15
Emma - CD20 FET
Juniper - CD21 (just tracking O for now)
Super_lost_mumma_of_one – CD43?
Waiting for Transfer :dance:
Hanging out in the TWW :crossfingers: (Stalk them here....
https://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums/threads/182783-LTTTC-Two-Week-Wait-2012-5 ) :goodluck:
Larry - CD19 0dp 1? x 5? day embryo BT: ???
N2L – CD24 2dpo
myturn – CD25 6dp 1 x 2 day embryo BT: 2/8/12
PlanetSasha – CD37 BT: 27/7/12
Andie – CD39
Got Their :bfp: in July :leap:
ReeRee 2/7/12
Jane 2/7/12
Rach82 13/7/12
Myturn, hope you don't mind, I added in how many dpo I am. Helps me to remember!!
no, of course not!
oh to have "the power" lol ;)
It makes me giddy sometimes.:
:rofl:
...don't make me laugh.... it hurts too much...... ;)
Any updates on your condition??
other thread..... ;)
Speaking of other threads......time for a new one!!
https://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums...15#post3162115