I've been thinking a lot lately about family planning...and I was to put this in a general discussion thread, but then got to the end and thought I would just make it it's own post. This is just rambling a of what is going on my head... But would love some input
We have to do Ivf, no other options. So no chance of a natural surprise ever happening, so it really is planning everything to a T, (one of the many things I hate about Ivf...anyway) DH is a lot older than me, and it wasn't until I did the maths and worked out how old he would be when Spcok turned 18 it really hit me with his side of it....
So we have one frozen, which I can't not give a go, because I will always want more children than we have, no matter how many we get, but I don't have much hope for it cause it is a day 5 and the day 5 we have tf have never worked. Only the day 2 have (Spock and quark). I've decided it's not practical for us to go back for another full cycle and pick up. As much as I want to, we shouldn't. So I will either only have 2 children, or 3 if we are really super lucky.... And I know that is awesome and I am thankful we even had options and got Spock and quark but I'll never be complete.... My whole life I have wanted 5 or 6 kids...
Being pg has helped with this decision, cause I'm able to use my head. But I know after quark is born I might struggle with it, esp. If when we do go tf our last little one I will be really stressed and it will be really hard... So if I get this out now, then it's a start .

Anyway...enough rambling...