Hi Ellie, hope everything goes ok tomorrow. I waited a week inbetween finding out and having the d & c. I am glad that i had one because it can take weeks sometimes months for the bleeding to start. Now am starting to be ok again, even though i am sad lots. But things slowly get better and we are looking forward to trying again. Oooo and we just found out DH has a varicocele so operation for that next week!! Feels like things are starting to happen again!!
Sorry about such a short message. I raced out of one class to answer the phone, then the class finished, then jumped onto the computer in the next class... and then had hoards of kids coming up to my desk wanting help, so I had to get rid of the BB screen real fast!
They'll thaw an embryo on Sunday, and I go for transfer on Monday. In a way I'm glad it's a Monday as I've then got two days to get over the stress factor from work. I guess I'm freaking out because it's happened so suddenly and there's a real chance that it may work. I know how to be the woman with arthritis and CFS and PCOS who can't get pregnant... I don't know how to do anything differently yet... and as much as that's where I want to go, I don't know how to do it... really freaked out and excited, terrified... and just generally incoherent! I still can't get a hold of DH to let him know.
Imagine me running around the room in circles waving my hands in the air and screaming... and you get somewhere close to how I'm feeling right now.
Welcome to Blayz and happymel... glad to have you join us!
Happymel, we're dealing with a varicocele as well. Are you going with ligation (surgery), or embolisation? We had an embolisation attempt last week but the radiologist couldn't get into the right vein. Would be great to talk more about your experience with things too.
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