Krikkit,

You're too early! POAS is so evil! I've still got everything crossed for you, and sending you

DH and I kept some things secret during our first IVF stim cycle, but still about a dozen people knew where we were at, and it is a lot of pressure. Don't be too hard on yourself, I know I have trouble keeping a secret, especially when IVF can be so consuming.

I have found that each time we've gone in for another FET, we've told less and less people. My mother can be particularly tiresome with all her questions and advice, so now I only tell her when we have 'news' to share - so far it's been to let her know that the FET didn't succeed, but she has no idea when the next one is, and won't be told until after the TWW. She was excrutiating during the stim cycle, and cared more about me getting pregnant (read: giving her grandchildren) than the fact that I had OHSS.

Don't get too down yet - even if this cycle doesn't succeed (touchwood, you're too early to know!), you will cope with it, because you've come this far and everyone in this thread is strong and resilient. And we'll be here to give you a big whenever you need it.

Now, stop poas and wait another week before getting worried!