Long Term TTC & Assisted Conception - November 2008

[Bengal]

BullieJ

Im sorry for your loss

[Bengal]

Im so sorry I havent posted any personal replies - I do read everyone's posts x

I just rang FS and I may be able to do another stim cycle this month - starting today - has anyone had any luck back to back with stim cycle's, ???? or should we BD naturally with booster puregon injections each day to help ovulation, we have fallen preg naturally before - ohhh im not sure..

I need to make the decision today .. please let me know your thoughts and experiences

[Possums]

wouldloveabubba- I'm not sure- I haven't any personal experience with back to back stim cycles to share with you. How do you feel...do you feel up for another full cycle? Perhaps that would give you a better chance of a BFP

[Possums]

wouldloveabubba- I'm not sure- I haven't any personal experience with back to back stim cycles to share with you. How do you feel...do you feel up for another full cycle? Perhaps that would give you a better chance of a BFP

buliej- have replied in my other thread and want to say again I am so so sorry and my heart breaks for you having to experience this....I really know how hard it is

[Bengal]

Possums - Hello, nice to hear from you, x

Im not sure .. I know I desperately want that BFP - would a stim cycle give us more of a chance, or would the puregon help things along naturally - I cant get hold of hubbie ... I am waiting on hold at the clinic - for some answers

[Mels77]

Buliej - my girl, i'm just devastated for you right now. i was just catching up on the thread since my post yesterday. i am so truly sorry for you. i'm thinking of you and i'm desparately sorry for your loss. please take care.

all other girls, thanks so much for your well wishes for my FET yesterday. it went well and i had a nice relaxo afternoon at home yesterday. unfort I learnt that they had to thaw a second embie yesterday morning because our first didn't make it through the night. oh well, at least there was time to thaw another (which apparently looks quite healthy). fingers crossed for this TWW.

thinking of you girls.
mels x

[TaRhLi.]

Hi Ladies

Buliej: So sorry to hear about your loss. We are all thinking of you and sending you lots of best wishes

AFM: Finally the scan today showed the lining has increased to 9mm, so FET all booked in for Friday. A week later than I expected, but at least we got there in the end. We are having 2 more day 3's transferred so hopefully all goes well this time around and the 2 they thaw survive (although we will still have 5 spare day 3's). So this means the BT will be on Thursday 27th. Hopefully this one works as if not, we probably won't get another chance before Xmas. So I need lots of sticky vibes from everyone for Friday.

Everyone else, I'm watching where you all are at, just over 6 weeks to Xmas so we need lots of BFP's to make everyone's Xmas special.

[buliej]

Thank you everyone for your kind words.

I hope things go really well for everyone - I cry at everything now and would love to have good news put tears in my eyes!

[Neptune]

Buliej you take care, and cry your eyes out if you need to. It is sad, and unfair, and all those things that suck. We are all thinking of you and hoping you find your way again soon.

KellyD - for Friday, how exciting!

Mels77 - glad FET went well, rest up and for your TWW

Possums - nice to see you, keep up the natural cycle!

Ontra_k - How are you doing?

Smithy - you must be getting close to your BT, take care

Mrs P, 21TTC, JayD - hello to you!

JBM - All the best for your transfer tomorrow!!!!

KaYdee - good luck with FET cycle

To anyone I have forgotten, good luck wherever you may be in your TTC journey, and let's make this thread a record for BFP's by Christmas!

AFM: Still waiting for AF, on day 28 now, and have no idea when I am due due to very strange temps etc this cycle. I have the puregon ready to go on day 2 of cycle, but have to be patient. I don't think I could be BFP this month due to the BT I had last week when they told me that I was about to get AF (E2 was 180 and PG was 15) so now I am just confused (which is not hard frankly). I am spotting ever so slightly, so I"m sure she will rear her ugly head tomorrow or something.

[Possums]

hey everyone...glad your cycles are moving forward those BFPs start coming for us soon

buliej- cry away... I have cried many many tears in the last few weeks, often at odd times- you have to get it out and move through the raw grief

[Me+him+bub]

hi everyone

buliej- You poor thing its so horrible, I dont know what else to say except im sorry. I try and put it down to being "gods will". My EDD is november 17 and im wishing it will go away, the loss never gets any easier so cry when you want to. I cried the other day when DP and I walked past a maternity clothes store for crying out loud! he doesnt mind though. just cry sweetie.

Also, I GOT MY AF ON CD24!!!! WHAT THE HELL!!! last cycle was 32 days and this one! geez someone shine some light for me! now this is the 8th damn cycle since D and C, also we get DP testosterone and thyroid levels back on tuesday then its my turn for testing! wish me luck

ME 21
DP 21- 89% abnormal sperm 1.5mls volume
TTC #1 for 2 years
IVF HERE WE COME

[*MRS M*]

hi beautiful girls
how are we all coping?
well today we found out one of my hubbys friends was involed in a truck accident in nsw and they dont think he will make it just waiting to hear from his friends sister to tell us he was thrown out the front window of the truck.
this is what i worrie sick about hubby when he is out at work as he also is a truck driver
sarah

[~BecD~]

Mrs M - Oh my goodness, that sounds terrible! Hope that your friend is okay.
21 - I know what you mean about the age thing. I was 20 when we first saw our FS and 21 when we started IVF. I think I am the youngest person at the clinic, and I constantly get the 'but you are so young' comments. It has provided a barrier with treatment as well as we don't have as much money as people who are older and have worked longer = more money etc.

We got a BFN on this FET cycle and AF arrived today. We have two blasts left and the clinic are finally going to let us do a double embryo transfer. We are out of money and in debt because of IVF so this will be our last shot for the next year at least, which is really hard to deal with. Im actually quite scared about what will happen next if we are unsuccessful. Onto cycle 7 we go...

[*MRS M*]

yer he is awake now thank god but they dont know what happen yet

[Me+him+bub]

BEC D- Oh my god I cant believe I found someone the same age as me yet so much more advanced! I understand the money thing aswell, we dont have private heath insurance either. You should PM me sometime I dont want to lose you now that I have found you! please please please keep me updated and give me all of your advice!

ME 21
DP 21- 89% abnormal sperm and 1.5mls volume
TTC#1 for 2 years!

[barney]

hi girls well im just popping in to let you all no we got our long awaited bfp after all these years of trying,many rounds of clomid,tests and ivestigations,an ectopic pg and the loss of a complete tube the other is stuffed,and 2 years of full on ivf its finally our turn
i hope all you girls can do the same never give up i dont no how many tears ive cried and how many times dh and i have left each other (only for the night of couse lol)but at the end its all worth it so please hang in there this is one hell of a journey were on girls
so best of luck to you all and i will be watching very closely
take care and thank you all for your wonderful support

[*MRS M*]

OMG SMITHY im so happy for you!!!!!!!

[Kahlan]

hi girls well im just popping in to let you all no we got our long awaited bfp after all these years of trying,many rounds of clomid,tests and ivestigations,an ectopic pg and the loss of a complete tube the other is stuffed,and 2 years of full on ivf its finally our turn
i hope all you girls can do the same never give up i dont no how many tears ive cried and how many times dh and i have left each other (only for the night of couse lol)but at the end its all worth it so please hang in there this is one hell of a journey were on girls
so best of luck to you all and i will be watching very closely
take care and thank you all for your wonderful support

OMG Smithy... yahoooooo.... you so deserve it! congrats!