LT TTC after Miscarriage or Loss #5

Hi Ladies

Ferrals - That's fantastic news. The rest of this pregnancy should be a breeze now.

:happyforyou::hooray:

Ferrals, such wonderful news! Soooooooooo happy for you and so relieved you did not have to go through any more pain. Now you can enjoy your little girl!

Hi all

DH has yet again hurt his eye. We have one final night of babydancing in this cycle and I can't see him being able to participate. Damn. Hopefully we have already done enough for the month.

IndiasMum- Hope your DH is feeling better soon hun, on a light note he doesn't need his eye to BD I say take advantage of him darl.....lol.....
AFM~ It's now CD38 today and I'm nearly certain I finally O'd at CD34 so 4DPO today, usually get AF 4-9 days after I O and don't have any sign of her arriving just yet, FX. Just to put a smile on everybodies face and to make you all think I am a bit of a bubble head at times, lol I decided to have a good look over my charts the other night and realised we have only been bding up to 2-3 days before I am actually Oing......yeah I know I have been having a blonde moment....lol....but on a good note we have been BDing up to on the day of and after I have O'd this month. So we shall see what happens this time around. I have my next GP appointment tomoro at lunch time to get BT results back and hopefully get my referral to see a OB/GYN. FX
Hope everybody has had a great week end and a safe one.

Hi girls- just a quickie, off to acupuncture and get my nails done before work this arvo!

Ferals-CONGRATULATIONS:cheer::bellyrubs::cheer: So happy for you and the ferals family, you deserve it after all you've been through, enjoy your pregnancy!!

claresmummy- glad you are in the TWW (or is that the OWW?!?), how do you know you O'd? Did it come up on OPK? Hope you caught it anyway x

India'smummy- these DH's will do anything to get out of BDing won't they lol! Hope you caught it anyway too x

Possum-hope the biatch doesn't come this weekend and you get a BFP instead!

AFM-Done 3 nights of jabbing, the first night had insomnia/racing thoughts, but that hasn't happened again THANKGOD, so feeling ok although getting a bit irritable at DH and can tell I am going to go nuts at him before the week is out, every little thing he says I take as an insult. Good old hormones!

Hope everyone has a great Monday, its so nice to see the sun again :D

Saffy- My OPT came up +ive and then had my temp rise finally after 34 days of low temps. So I'm only guessing but my temps say I have O'd on CD34. I'm off to the DR again today to get my BT results from the other day so we shall see what they come back saying as they were taken the day I think I O'd.
Good luck with the acupuncture hun.

hello everyone,

Sorry for being MIA but feeling very low at the moment. Hoping it passes soon.

Clairesmummy, hope the blood test results come back good - that's a long cycle you poor thing but sounds like you might have caught that egg so good luck!

India's Mum, is the eye injury bad? Sorry it is going to interrupt your bding this month, I do remember how frustrating that is! Any chance he can be ah...comforted...in some way?

Possum, did AF come? If so, I hope she wasn't as bad as you thought. Chocolate chocolate chocolate chocolate...that's my prescription for everything at the moment! :)

Hi to everyone else - Sunbeam (hope you're enjoying the cruise), Mildez & Porsche (hope those bubs are growing well) Ferrals (have you had the tag party yet?) Toomanyshoes (did you find something nice for your SIL in the end? I think the necklace is a beautiful idea but agree it's also a hard one to make a call on)

MatthewsMum, how are you? How's the acupuncture going?

Who have I missed?? It's been a while since we've heard from everyone. :stickyvibesgirl: and :pink-babydust: to everyone xx

AFM just charting away but it's all over the place, I have some persistent pain that is bothering me and just generally a bit low. I will wait until the end of this cycle to see if the pain goes away. One thing that is really upsetting me is that I'm getting hot flushes - LOTS of them. Just hope they go soon as I'm not ready for the big M. Hoping it's just my body adjusting after months of medication. Will ask the TCM doc about it tomorrow.

Thanks Alice I will let you all know what happens when I get home. And don't give up hope just yet hun, my mum had me when she was 45 and I always tell mum that I was the best one she had out of the 3 of us.....lol.....as I'm the only child that stays in contact with mum and dad regularly.

Thanks Alice I will let you all know what happens when I get home. And don't give up hope just yet hun, my mum had me when she was 45 and I always tell mum that I was the best one she had out of the 3 of us.....lol.....as I'm the only child that stays in contact with mum and dad regularly. Keep your chin u

Thanks Alice I will let you all know what happens when I get home. And don't give up hope just yet hun, my mum had me when she was 45 and I always tell mum that I was the best one she had out of the 3 of us.....lol.....as I'm the only child that stays in contact with mum and dad regularly. Keep your chin up darl and I hope you are feeling better soon. Hugs.

Thanks Alice I will let you all know what happens when I get home. And don't give up hope just yet hun, my mum had me when she was 45 and I always tell mum that I was the best one she had out of the 3 of us.....lol.....as I'm the only child that stays in contact with mum and dad regularly. Keep your chin up darl and I hope you are feeling better soon. Hugs.

india's mum - hope you caught the egg!

Saffy - good to hear your head has settled down, nothing worse they laying in bed with a gazillion things running through your mind at a million miles an hour!

Clairesmummy - Good luck with the DR today.

Alice - Really hope those hot flashes go away real quick! I'm still looking around, really haven't made up my mind, I have a love/hate relationship with her. She's my only in law I get along with and that's only 50% of the time lol

AFM - I'm trying to just let thing happen, trying to hold off on the IUD for as long as I can to just see what happens. But if AF keep getting me down I'm just going to have to do it. Still taking all the lotions and potions and I'm going to try to lose some weight over summer so we'll see how things go.

Hope everyone is well :)

congratulations ferrals !!!

i told you so i am so thrilled your little girl is fit and healthy now you can enjoy the rest of your pregnancy !!!!

*munch, munch, munch* (Sound of eating choccy biscuits!) Alice, i'm with you on the choccy diet. I'm so sorry love that you are feeling low at the moment and in pain. I hope this is just your body in recovery mode (or stress related?) and nothing more worrisome. But I can understand why hot flushes would be upsetting to you.

Well, AF arrived Friday. Was relieved actually: I'd had ten days of feeling crampy and the day before AF was the worst with headache, backache, pain down my thighs- haven't had that since i was a teenager. I was torn between feeling disappointed i wasn't pg and feeling ok about it because i've just started a new job and it would be kind of stressful to be pg the first month i started! I've never fallen pg first month of trying but usually within the first 4 months so i hope i'll be as lucky this time. But it feels unreal to think i could be. And i just can't imagine a 'take home' baby. Feels like a dream that it would every happen to me a 2nd time. I keep thinking we are going to be a one child family. And of course i know i'm lucky to have one but I'm still struggling with not having more and it is made harder by my two best friends being pg with their 3rd while i'm still trying for a 2nd. I feel like I haven't got my usual supports because I find it harder to be around them (not their fault it's just how i feel).

Saffy: is 'Da Crazy Woman in Da House?' as Murray Cod used to say?! Brave woman sucking up the hormones (or rather injecting them?) I'm nutty enough on normal natural hormones. I'm in awe of you injecting extra ones! I'm praying hard for you that this cycle works.

Crafty: how r you going with the clomid? Not too bad with side effects i hope?

India's mum: *Groan!* Isn't it always the way that something crops up when you need to BD! HOpe your efforts so far will do the trick!

Ferrals: Hope you are now starting to relax a bit and are surrounded by a pool of pink baby clothes without their tags!

Toomanyshoes:That sounds good: Keeping your options open while it still feels ok and keeping the IUD as a Plan B if it all gets a bit much.

Clairesmummy: Woah, that egg sure had a sleep-in! Fancy it deciding to pop at day 34! Hope you and DH were spot on with the BD this time and that the dr confirms you did 'o'.

Hi Ladies,

still here, although I think I will be taking a break from TTC for a while. Not voluntarily, just seems that the hcg takes forever to clear out of my system. Just wanted to say:

Huge congratulations to Ferrals! Enjoy your pregnancy and your little gril when it comes.

Well I had my DR appointment yesterday and yeah I'm even more confused now than what I have been all this cycle...:wall: Got my 2nd lot of BTs back and they were -ive for O and -ive for PG. DR did another PG test yesterday before she gave a referral just in case and it came back -ive. I still have no sign of AF arriving have made an appoinment to see an OB/GYN on the 8th of November. I really had thought I had O'd on CD34-35. BT was done on CD34 would they pick up if I was about to O at all???? Or if I was O'ing at the time? I had +ive OPTs from CD33-34 temp rise on CD35 and still have a high temp this morning at CD40. I am so confused about everything right now and so scared since my MC I have had regular AF every cycle at 26-28 days with O time at around CD19 and LP of only 6 days. Just wish AF would arrive so I feel more at ease with it all.

Clairesmummy - That sounds like such a head ache :hug: Hope your cycles sort themselves out very soon!

Hi girls!

Claresmummy- wow, thats a hard one, its making my mind boggle actually- my gut instinct is go with the O signs you found and assume the blood test was too early ( normally they are done on day 21 if you O around day 14). Wait til you go to the Gynae as they will no doubt make it more clear for you. xx

Luna- hugs to you, hope the hcg goes quicklyx

toomanyshoes-just to let you know if you get the IUD( I assume you mean Mirena), many people have up to 3 months of bleeding/spotting before it goes for good, (the drs just tell you you could have a few weeks of spotting) so make sure you really, really want it because they are reluctant to take it out before the 3 month mark if you are annoyed by the bleeding. I hope you get a bfp before it comes to that anyway!

Possummagic-so sorry AF arrived, I'm sure you will get a sibling for your little one,your little baby-to-be is just making you be patient ( mine is too unfortunately). My crazy lady hasn't come out yet, probably because I haven't seen DH much the past day as we are working opposite each other! So I haven't had a chance to be irritated by him lol! Poor sucker.

Alice- how are you going? I hope things are settling down physically and emotionally and you are making yourself feel better with chocolate, and maybe a glass of wine or two?? :hug: xx How did you go at the TCM?

Crafty- how are you love? How are your son and DIL going with the new addition?

AFM-jabbing, start the antagonist tomorrow, feeling good so far! And feeling positive for Fridays scan! :D