thread: Need to vent

  1. #1
    Registered User

    Jan 2011
    Berwick, Australia
    192

    Need to vent

    Having a really **** day as another friends child heads off to kinder. Never thought it would be such a struggle to watch everyone cry over their 'babies' growing up. I have about 10 friends who's kids have started kinder this year and the constant pictures in their uniforms breaks my heart every day and not One of them can understand the pain it brings me knowing I may never have that experience. And if one more person tells me it's ok, my time will come, I'll scream. That doesn't help!
    Vent over, for now.

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Oct 2006
    In a house, on a hill with a big fat welcome mat!
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    Yep I hear you!

  3. #3
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    Sep 2007
    Brisbane
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    Yes it is hard, very hard. Feel free to vent all you need.

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Jul 2010
    Melbourne
    2,737

    My best friend is due on Monday, she always says to me "it will happen when it's meant to". I know how crap it makes you feel.

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Jan 2011
    Berwick, Australia
    192

    My partner is so wonderful, he has two kids of his own and he knows just what to say. He told me last night, I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through and I can't tell you it will be ok, I can just say I'm sorry this sucks an give you a hug. I know it won't be enough but it's the best I can think of.

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Jan 2011
    Berwick, Australia
    192

    Seems God has bigger plans for myself and DP, we have our FS appointment in two weeks. Need to cancel as I got a BFP this weekend, so unexpected. I could cry as I want to tell soooo many ppl but have to wait for that stupid 12 week mark. Grr, heres hoping it is this easy. All the best guys, sometimes the impossible can happen. Love you all, bye

  7. #7
    BellyBelly Member

    Jan 2005
    Brisbane
    1,300

    Wooooooohoooooooooo CONGRATULATIONS HUN!!!!

    I am so very happy and excited for you and your DH, wishing you a very H&H pregnancy

  8. #8
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    Feb 2008
    Country Victoria
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    woooohooooo thats fantastic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! congratulations!

  9. #9
    Registered User

    Oct 2006
    In a house, on a hill with a big fat welcome mat!
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    That is just perfect all the best to you that has made me smile this morning

  10. #10
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    Apr 2009
    Bayside Melb.
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    Congrats to your BFP .... can i ask though Why do you have to wait for the 12 weeks mark? I know people tell you 'just in case' but you know what why put your self through it . YOUR pregnant and nothing will change that so personally i have and i would say TELL family friends tell every one ..... who cares if your 5, 6, 7, 8, 9 weeks your BFP and its wonderful xx
    (dont mean to offend anyone)

  11. #11
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    Sep 2008
    Croydon, Victoria
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    That is fantastic news!!
    Having had a miscarriage, i understand why you would want to wait til the 12 week mark - you just want to make sure everything is ok. Im sure you could maybe tell your mum or bestie though, if you wanted to :-) xxx

  12. #12
    Registered User

    Jan 2011
    Berwick, Australia
    192

    Bubno, not offended, just concerned that with everything that had gone wrong for me/us don't want to jinx it, dot think I'll wait the 12 wks though, it's already killing me. Would never have thogfht it would happen for me, somewhat resigned to childfree life. It's euphoric.

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    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jan 2006
    11,633

    Congratulations! What a lovely surprise for you