glad you joined us Starbright ... you will find a wealth of support and information here. You have found a space to share the IVF girl talk.

Friends just don't know what to say -so they hibernate while we brave the difficult times alone. It is not intentional just their way of coping.

They might feel uncomfortable and not know what to say they doesn't offend so they left friendships slide. Ring them anyway and share -hey I am doing this ... if that is what you want or ring them and say how are you I have been thinking of you and wait for them to ask ...

Acknowledge it unless to do so would fall on insensitive ears or would be painful to you.

I have told a few friends (not family) but they rarely ask where I am up too.

Shez - I am glad you are up and about. When will they do your FET ?