epayne - I agree with Bec if you have any clomid left or can get some i would take it and pray that you O on your own. DONT GIVE UP, I understand about DH not understanding it just does not seem as important to them as it does to us sometimes (well mine anyway) it took me 2.5 years to get my DP to do a SA. I completely understand about the nursery furniture i have brought heaps of baby clothes, shoes and other stuff off e-bay thinking i would fall pregnant soon and its heart breaking to see them in the closet. But you cant give up i use my baby things as inspiration when i feel like giving up. But i do understand why you want to get rid of them it will be easier for you emotionally. For christmas day good luck my thoughts will be with you as it wont be easy. Were staying home this year thank goodness. As for IVF i have been doing the caculations for us with were we will be doing it and besides needing around $7000 upfront you end up about $2000 out of pocket for that but then there is the doctor and hospital for egg retreival and then transfer is $2100. You would think you could get more help cause that's alot of money.

Bec - Good Luck with the trigger and having lots of fun after :-))

AFM: On CD 20 today and not confident at all this month have no systems at all. The place where i will be doing IUI and IVF gave me the name of a lady who does accupunture and chinese medicine that they send patients to and my first app was last Fri and she was really good the herbs taste like s***t but was really impressed with her so lets hope she can help.

WISHING EVERYONE LOTS OF BABY DUST AND STICKY VIBES