LysnDan - Thank You i agree makes me feel better though. I'm off to have my sandwich

Sorry another question does anyone or has anyone tried the fertility diet? I'm curious because i think i can get DP to agree to 1 round of something either IVF or IUI in July but i will only have that one chance as his pig headed and that's all he will let me do. So it's like it will be 3 years of trying then and if its ment to be then it will happen or if it does not work in July i will give up trying altogether. I need advise what would you do to give you a better chance of getting that BFP? Is there anything i can do? besides losing the 20kg's i need to.