Possums - I can't reiterate enough how sorry I am for your loss. You are a very brave woman to be able to come in here at all.

SJD - i will say a tentative CONGRATULATIONS!! May your BT just make it official

Well, amazingly, I am still here!!! NO AF, cramps have eased and feeling bit blugh. BT tomorrow so will let you all know when I can.
Must admit, my mind has not been totally on baby mode past few days. Worried about my GF who was caught in the bushfires. Eventually spoke to her last night and she is doing ok considering. The story she told of that day was just horrific and it is a true miracle that she, he hubby and the neighbours who sheltered with them, are alive. Her DH and neighbour fought the fires at their doorstep for hrs and is now suffering with chest issues and burns to his corneas (very painful!) but he will be fine and they will be able to rebuild their lives. Amazingly, she saved her IVF meds and continued to take them in the aftermath so may have a chance at a miracle through all this. Monash IVF has also refunded their entire cycle cost ... very nice gift!