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Dear W1,
That really sucks, I'm so sorry it didn't happen this time. I think you have every right to feel angry, dissapointed, basically fed up with it all! :wall: Sometimes (okay, most of the time) my DH cops a visit from this hormonal, irriational woman that comes to stay with us a week before AF arrives. She is quite unbearable at times, especially when she is feeling down about TTC. However, he is very good and understands that sometimes I feel overhwhelmed with our hormones - besides we need to vent! Plus consider that your body has been through a lot emotionally and physically. It's not easy at all! I am sure your DH realises your just feeling plain p****ed off and a bit hopeless right now.
As Slyder said, it will its seems to be a game of odds, the more you try the better chance you have eventually of getting BFP. I don't know because I am still new at this... and you shouldn't be too hard on yourself - you are both trying your best and that is all you can do.
I hope you feel better soon, I will be sending you happy thoughts and wishes..
Rach xx
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Hi ladies, well i've been a bit quiet over the weekend - not wanting to jinx myself - however, a fat lot of good that has done, as AF is on her miserable way, the old cow :angry: Will be calling my FS today, trying for an earlier appt (due to see him at end of January)... i'm ready to crank things up a notch and move on to IUI... am due to have another cycle of clomid, however, i really don't think it will be of any use .... we have unexplained infertility, and if it was going to work, i feel it would have done so by now :dunno: ..... i haven't felt too disappointed with the arrival of AF, which i'm finding a bit weird, as i was actually feeling quite positive this cycle..... aaahhhhh the ttc rollercoaster!! Goodluck for all who are still in the tww, i hope to hear of some BFP's ...... Peta, only 2 days left until your BT hun, so :crossfingers:! I'll probably just be lurking around BB for the next little while, but will check on those BFP's :heartbeat:
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why is this happening?
Hi All...
Well.. I went for my blood test today this morning knowing it was all over.
Then I decided to go to a movie and thought I better deal with AF. Went to do so and virtually nothing there.... great....
so go to movie and clinic rings to say I have a level of 3. 2 is not pregnant and 3 is inconclusive but still not pregnant. Great. So they think AF will be on its way but cannot count it as yesterday therefore I cannot fall within 2007 safety net... damn it !
I dont know if it is at all possible that implantation happened yesterday and that is why I have a level of 3 but it all seems extremely unlikely to me.:wall: I have no idea what is going on. I was mentally all prepared for my negative adn AF and now neither - but nothing good either... Ill keep you posted...
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Hi All
Hope you are all well.
Theresp - thank you for your good wishes. I am getting nervous, but trying to think BFN (this way I figure if its a BFP I'll be really surprised & if a BFN I will be half prepared. Sad how I take this negative outlook...just my way of coping I guess).
Waiting1 - I am crossing my fingers that no news is good news for you. One thing I have learnt from all this is everytime I expect something to happen one way, it always goes the opposite, so here's hoping!
A big hi to Rach81, Slyder, MissC, MO5, Mon, Shellyd & Curmon!
So, only 2 more sleeps to BT for me. Very anxious, but trying not to let my brain get carried away with itself. I have to say, I have been so forgetful lately, it's as if I have lost my brain somewhere. It's driving me nuts!
Take care all & I will speak to you all soon.
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A big 'fingers crossed' for you, Peta.
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Peta
Oh good luck good luck. If AF hasn't arrived yet its an excellent sign. Thinking about you and :pray: for BFP !!!!!!!!!!
Let us know how you go.
I feel good vibes about this one !
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happy new year all
Just a quick update ..... after my extremely low hcg reading...... still no AF... a tiny amount of spotting but nothing - 2 days late. I Did another HPT and nothing so the levels arent increasing. Not sure what is going on.
I did this FET straight off a stim cylce and my ovulation date was pushed out to 20 days so not sure if that is what affecting the delayed AF? I thought luteal phases were the same timeframe regardless of what happened and i have never been late before ever. Just want this cycle to end so i can start another....... the longer AF takes the longer until I ovulate.
Has anyone else experienced anything like this?
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Hey everyone,
Peta just wanted to wish you a big good luck for tomorrow.....i have my BT as well. I did do a HPT test (well several of them) which came up positive so just want to get tomorrow out of the way to confirm and start telling everyone. I will be thinking of you.
Take care
Claire
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congratulations Curmon - great to see FETs work first go !! Im out. AF finally arrived after a little song and dance. Will have next FET around 14 Jan........... praying this third go sticks !!!!
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Claire, this is sounding really promising! I hope your b/t result comes quickly tomorrow. Will be thinking of you!
Peta, I haven't seen you in here today, but I'll be thinking of you for your b/t tomorrow too! Best wishes!
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Hey Claire - brilliant news so far, I really hope the BT shows the same results for you today!! DH hasn't let me do a HPT so I have no idea. No AF, but that's more to do with the lovely drugs the clinic has me on. Thanks for your good wishes too.
W1 - sorry to hear this cycle didn't work out. Fingers crossed the next cycle is the one for you.
Miss_c - thanks for your good wishes for today.
I am feeling so anxious this morning. I kept asking my DH last night if we could skip today (I figured this way I wouldn't have to find out good or bad news). Unfortunately DH won't let this happen - party pooper! Anyway, the BT is the easy part, but then I will have to suck up all my courage to phone the clinic at about 11am. I really hope this works, I don't want to go through another cycle.......... Time will tell.
Speak to you later today girls!
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Thinking of you both, Peta & Claire! Everything crossed for BFPs!! Big start to the new year!
:pray:
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Thinking of you both, Peta & Claire! Everything crossed for BFPs!! Big start to the new year!
:pray:
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Well the results are in - a BFN. I knew it in my heart. Just waiting now for my nurse to speak to FS & call back with instructions about what the next step is. Feeling pretty low at the moment, but I guess now I know......
Claire, I hope you have had better luck!
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Peta, I'm sorry, hun :(
Many hugs to you :hugs:
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Peta, sorry to hear the news as well! big hugs from me to you as well!
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I've had a few wet eyes lurking on this forum..
