Thank you all very much ladies, your comments are all very encouraging.
Well, I think Im convinced- menevit for the man it is!
Kelly- thanks for the tip about the naturopath, something to definitely keep in mind and look further into.
Thank you again to everyone for your opinions. My IVF clinic said it was basically a waste of $, baffled as to why if other IVF clinics are advising their male patients to take it. Oh well, we certainly have nothing to lose and everything to gain.