DH and I are considering a vasectomy reversal (well, it's him obviously that will be having the procedure but...).

We are taking this approach as opposed to another round of ICSI IVF. We had DS2 through ICSI IVF but our second attempt with a FET (frozen from DS2's round) in April failed. It might seem a bit strange but I kind of prefer the idea of putting the ball (so to speak) back in nature's court and seeing whether or not we fall pregnant (more or less) naturally.

I think I'll be able to cope better if we don't get a positive result. Does that make sense? I just can't believe how incredibly fragile I've felt since we got a BFN. It has consumed my thoughts - both awake and in my dreams. I keep thinking that I could have done something differently and that I had taken my drugs incorrectly or didn't rest long enough.

Any thoughts would be appreciated.