Secondary Infertility forum

**Miss.B** · February 11th, 2014, 08:34 PM

Hi,
Can someone please tell me if there is a place on belly dedicated to secondary infertility? Basically for people that have a child/children but are struggling to conceive again?
Ta.

**Miss.B** · February 11th, 2014, 08:36 PM

Sorry, meant to say 'forum' in the title.

**OceanPrincess** · February 11th, 2014, 08:56 PM

Someone will correct it for you hun and help with the question too

**Miss.B** · February 11th, 2014, 09:19 PM

Thanks OP

**Miss.B** · February 12th, 2014, 07:50 PM

**juniper76** · February 12th, 2014, 08:06 PM

Hi,
Can someone please tell me if there is a place on belly dedicated to secondary infertility? Basically for people that have a child/children but are struggling to conceive again?
Ta.

And if there's not one, can we start one? The LTTTC thread is wonderfully supportive and inclusive of everyone, regardless of whether we are struggling with primary or secondary IF, but those dealing with primary IF don't want to hear our fears that our child will never have a sibling when they are scared they'll never have a child at all. And so there are times we are surrounded by friends in the same situation but feel alone because we can't talk about it without risking upsetting others...

**CinderToriella** · February 12th, 2014, 08:19 PM

I'm in

**Miss.B** · February 12th, 2014, 08:26 PM

Juniper, you are so very eloquent with your words, you've said it perfectly, thanks hun. It's exactly how I feel.

**Sarah4kurt13** · February 13th, 2014, 09:23 AM

Ditto.
And in the real world (not here) people seem to be less supportive when you already have one child/children in understanding why you don't just give up and "be happy with what you got" like we don't appreciate our children! Lol . But to me our much wanted child is just as much wanted as our first and our dream of our first child was just as real as trying for this one. I feel just as sad about all the bfns and Mc's as if it was our first!
And it does not mean I don't appreciate my child who I want to give a sibling! The opposite!
Sorry I guess I got some thing to say lol :-)
Yeah so I'm all for such a forum :-)

**Lenny** · February 13th, 2014, 09:43 AM

You guys are welcome to chat about secondary infertility and it's unique challenges and fears.

It doesn't need to be anything official - we can just change this thread title for you, or you can just start your own new thread if you'd prefer.

xx