thanks alot clare for your reply - and congratulations ! I understand what you are saying and yes, if for the small chance that we have to concieve twins or more, it would be stressful in a new way, considering we already have one beautiful boy with special needs. I mentioned your story to hubby and he said that because the egg divided/spilt, it is more likely you have a family history of twins as this would be VERY rare to happen otherwise...not sure if he is right of course, anyone else know? Of course there is the chance of a natural pregnancy for us AND an IVF one.......but like you say, because we have been trying for 2 years, by now it would be a shock/blessing just to get a positive preg result !!

thank you very much for your blessing - and mine goes out to you for a safe and healthy pregnancy and births for your twins! And good luck to everyone else about to transfer again soon or in the 2ww.