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thread: Thaw'd 5 - only 1 made it

  1. #19
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    Oct 2005
    390

    Started spotting at 8.23am this morning.........not alot, but still. Have backache but no lower stomach cramping.

    Still going for the BT tomorrow......

  2. #20
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    Oct 2007
    Vic
    617

    wishing you all the best for your bt tomorrow - even with a little spotting it could still be a BFP! and
    fg

  3. #21
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    Jan 2008
    3,305

    Look ill be honest here i dont know much about this stuff, But what i do know is the joys of being a mother and i do TRULY wish you all the best and i PRAY that this worked for you GOODLUCK best wishes!!!

  4. #22
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    Oct 2007
    Melbourne
    83

    I am crossing my fingers and toes for you!!!

  5. #23
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    Oct 2008
    Sydney
    30

    Crossing everything for you lil_chookie... I really hope it's a BFP for you.

  6. #24
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    Jan 2008
    Brissy
    1,292

    good luck for testing .

  7. #25
    Registered User

    Oct 2005
    390

    It's over.......the bleeding is heavy, the cramping is unbearable.

    Thank you for the support, it is nice to have somewhere to go to say whats really going on. Gets draining pretending everything is all good in the real world. We used to tell everyone what we were doing but then we had to tell everyone it didn't work, at least now it's just us that has to deal with it.

    My DH left me the most beautiful letter stuck to my mirror this morning when I went to have my blood taken. I might not have a baby but I have the most amazing man to share my life with & if this never happens for us.......I know one day we will be okay because we have each other.

    Going to go straight into a stim cycle.........bcp, sniffing & jabbing......YUCK!! Just waiting on the BT result frm the clinic.......if this is another ectopic, I will go outside and actually

    Bye 'Eddie'.........we loved the thought of you being in our lives over the past few weeks.

    xox

  8. #26
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    Dec 2005
    6,706

    Oh crap! bugger! poo!

    It's so unfair!

    If it's any comfort - it doesn't sound like an ectopic, not that I'm an expert on ectopics at all. If anything it sounds a bit more like the chemical pregnancies I experienced.

    Hang in there, have faith that it will work at some stage and take comfort in the amazing man you have there... Sounds like you've got an absolutely fantastic one.

    I'm so sorry...

    BW

  9. #27
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    Dec 2006
    In my own private paradise
    15,272

    i'm so very sorry hun - this game just SUCKS so much!

    i'm so glad you have such a supportive DH - allow yourself time to grieve together, and move forward when you're ready

    take care - and as BW said - it sounds reminicent of my chemical pg's as well

    thinking of you

    BG

  10. #28
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    Mar 2006
    4,542

    I'm so very very sorry Chookie. Thinking of you.

  11. #29
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    Sep 2008
    Gold Coast
    44

    All my sympathies lil chookie, I can't begin to imagine how you are feeling. Take care of yourself.

  12. #30
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    Feb 2008
    Sydney NSW
    8

    My heart just dropped into my stomach reading your post. I am very sorry lil_chookie.

  13. #31
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    Oct 2008
    Sydney
    30

    I am so sorry Lil_Chookie... my heart goes out to you. It's just so hard....

    Look after yourself.

  14. #32
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    Jul 2006
    In The Land Of Wonderful...
    1,751

    Oh hun, I'm so, so sorry

    I've only just found this thread, otherwise I would have been on here sooner for the support

    Big hugs to you - I feel your frustration after 7yrs TTC... but you're going into a new cycle, anything & everything is possible

    Very, very best of luck to you for this new one, I have everything crossed for you xxx

  15. #33
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    Sep 2006
    Beaudesert, QLD
    1,169

    so sorry sweetheart

    please take it easy and be kind to yourself

    it sounds like you have a really great man behind you holding and loving you through this very tough time

    take care hun

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