Purple chic - just thought i'd add my glimmer of hope...due to DH vas many many moons ago and a failed (and very costly) reversal, we underwent ICSI with sperm asp. in 2007. We only got 6 eggs at EPU (despite LOTS of follies) and after ICSI only 2 viable - A 2 dayer fortunately produced our DD (2 yrs). The other is being transfered by FET tomorrow (if it thaws), but i'm being realistic it might not happen again and we may have just struck it lucky 1st go. I really do think it is individual and no statistics will represent your situation. Best of luck with it all, we can only hope and pray and try to keep ourselves sane while we go through this journey!!!