I had an opportunity while on Mat Leave. I didn't take it. I wish i had in hindsight. Insteadwegot used to me not working and DH's hours got longer and now i really can't work until the kids are older. I wish i had taken the less paid, less demanding, but ultimately more satisfying role whilst on mat leave (unpaid).

To avoid travel for 3 hours seems like a no-brainer to me! I couldn't do it - i'd just want to be home.

I'd work more now,knowing that in the long run you will have more time as a familylater.