mildez i cant even use soap down there, (or on the rest of my body) i have to use soap free body wash or natural goats milk soap.. if i do use soap i get red raw, itchy and start bleeding.. maybe your body had formed a new reaction to soap??
fwiw i cant use condoms either, does the same thing..

when i do get sore down there i put cocoa butter on it...
I have the same issues if I use soap. Exactly the same! Same with condom's either, but I've found that latex-free condoms are heaps better.