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thread: Dangers of Coldsores for Newborns (Warning content may disturb)

  1. #19
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    Mar 2007
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    I had my first cold sore about 3 yrs ago!! I was so annoyed!! I tell Dh that he must have given it to me lol although he has never had one..... I may have caught the virus years earlier but it only surfaced then iykwim? when stressed etc i can get one....but very rarely.

    I'm so glad i have had the virus for years and not just contracting it now. That's scary if you were to get one for the first time during pregnancy!!

    Keep in mind though people - you can pass the cold sore virus on to a baby when kissing them before you even get symptoms of a cold sore..... called "asymptomatic shedding" have a read about it..... so no babies are really never safe from the virus, noone is!!
    Viruses unfortunately will always be a part of society and majority of people have the virus and don't even know they have it because they never get symptoms.

    I did lots of reading on HSV1 when i contracted it years ago. Very interesting reading about it!!

  2. #20
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    I didn't realise it could be deadly but I have taken extra special care whenever DstepD is around Brock and has a cold sore or infection of some sort as I know he just doesn't have the immunity to fight it off.

    Off track slightly but one thing I read whilst pregnant is that babies & young kids can throw out massive amounts of infection germs (that's probably the wrong terminology) of whatever they are trying to fight and therefore infect those around them.

    I thought it was interesting at the time but it was brought home how true it was when my mum contracted an infection and ended up hospitalised a couple of days after Brock was born. He was put into the special care nursery with an unknown infection on the day of his birth and remained there for 5 days. My mum was present during the labour & afterwards but became very ill later about 48 hours later (& remained in hossy about the same amount of time Brock did). She is undergoing Herceptin treatment for breast cancer so her immunity is not what it should be. It was a very stressful time having both mother & son with unknown infections but thankfully both recovered.

    You can never be too careful when it comes to babies & infections.

  3. #21
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    isn't it always the way - stressful night, and one of the blighters pops up in the morning. i'm super stressy about what this will mean for the gremlin - even though i KNOW i've had this virus forever and probably pumping immunity across the umbilical cord...

  4. #22
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    BG - we're one of the lucky one's (if you could call it that lol) that have had it for years so I think our bubs' will be fine and have enough immunity to protect them from getting it from us and hopefully from others.... It would be awful to get the virus now while pregnant or just after bub is born....

    I suppose those first few weeks of bub's life are the most 'delicate' huh.... and after that most babies have enough immunity to protect them (if given to them from Mum thru cord)

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    i think i'm just worried cos we've been through so much to get here and was hoping to make it to 12 weeks unscathed - but instead i've had an almost constant stream of things going wrong! and this just takes the cake - i hate the damn things!

  6. #24
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    All midwives & nurses are very aware of this danger that is why I find it so odd that this has happened. Just wondering if there is a little more to the story...
    Exactly what I was about to post, Deb.I am very suspicious of the quote in this story about most doctors not knowing the risk of an HSV infection in a newborn. It is simply not true - every nurse and doctor I have worked with in paediatrics knows of the dangers...

  7. #25
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    This is such a sad story.

    I have had bouts of terrible coldsores on my face for as long as I can remember. They seem to surface when I am run down or stressed but I wasnt aware that some form of immunity would be transferred to my children through the umbilical cord. I know I had at least one bout of coldsores throughout each of my pregnancies so I am hoping that this means the children wont suffer from them.

    I am super careful around the children when I have a coldsore - like I mean over the top washing of hands and I dont let them lie on my pillow, no kisses (which is hard although they know if I have a coldsore not to get too close to it). So far so good because I would hate for them to go through the horrible pain of coldsores.

  8. #26
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    Dec 2007
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    Sorry to highjack this thread but I am curious. My DD is 8 weeks old. I have never had cold sores but my DH gets them when he is run down. He currently has one. So does this mean he needs to be careful washing his hands and not putting DD near his face while he has them?

  9. #27
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    Jul 2007
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    Yes make sure he washes his hand before he touches her and dont let him kiss her or let her hands touch his face.

    Please be very careful

  10. #28
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    Oh this is a very sad story and luckily fairly rare. Considering about 80% of the population are infected with HSV1 (coldsores) many many bubs would have a degree of immunity from their mother. it is just unfortunate that baby Mira's mum had her first outbreak at this time.

    I never thought I'd say it but it makes me glad that I got my first coldsore about 10 years ago because at least now I know my bub will have a degree of immunity. It is also important to note that you can get coldsores not only on your lips. Someone I know of gets them on their hand, My first ever outbreak was on my cheek of all things. And as Renstar said those who are infected with the virus can actually shed it from time to time without even having a coldsore. It's fairly rare but it does happen.
    I guess utmost hygiene is the key here, especially where young bubs are concerned.

    Sorry to get off track here but it also makes me think about CMV. This is another virus that is related to the herpes family. When adults get it, it usually causes nothing more than flu like symptoms. It is another very common virus but if the mother gets her first infection in pregnancy then it can cause brain damage and deafness to the unborn baby. I knew nothing about this virus until my friends premmie baby had gotten it. Small children who have the virus in their system excrete it in their urine so it is very very important for pregnant women who already have a baby/toddler to wash hands thoroughly after changing a nappy as CMV can be excreted in urine for months or even years. And like I said it is commonly just mistaken for the flu so many many adults and young children have already had this virus. And sorry, don't mean to freak anyone out but it's another one to be weiry of.
    Last edited by ~mamaspice~; October 31st, 2008 at 01:28 PM.

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