Sometimes I have to poke, prod and even beg my DH for some bedroom action.

We were never really ones to BD terribly often, and then I started working and was TIRED all the time... and then I got sick - and we would sadly go for months and months without BDing at all. I think in that time DH adjusted to not getting much at all. Now that we are TTC, things are a little different, but I still am sometimes surprised at how little DH seems to want to BD. I wonder if it is because he starts to think that I only want him for his sperm, but I have tried REALLY hard to never let it be a case of "I think I'm ovulating, let's go"...

Ryn, I know none of this applies in your situation, but I did want to let you know that there are men out there who are a bit like that... but I'd start to worry if it were all the time, and for such a long period of time like your DH.

Sorry, I know I haven't been much help at all...

BW