Thanks My boys will be 3.5 and 1 so fairly high maintenance lol. My DH commutes to an IT job (1.5 hours away) and doesn't really have the option of any more time off... I can book both boys into daycare for the Wed and Thurs, maybe that is a more realistic option? My parents are close by, but they both work as well. My surgeon said I'll be ok to BF with the meds so I hope she knows what she's talking about!

I think I'm actually taking it too lightly, maybe ill be more worried when it gets closer.